Would you do the dirty if you could get away with it?

Gilly said:
Note which one was more important and came first though ;)

1. Wouldn't want to get caught!
2. Oh, and of course I love and respect her too..... *shifty look*
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Stop trying to psycho analyse me, your not Cleanbluesky ;)
 
Some of my mates have cheated on their girlfriends, and even though I would never rat on them for doing it, I would never help them do it by lying for them or making up alibis, and I certainly wouldn't back them up if they got into trouble with their partners for it.

If they want to cheat, they have to be prepared for the consequences it usually brings.
 
If you are not going to get caught, then no one is going to know but you then there is only 1 problem, your own morals. If you can live with that, go right ahead.
 
Remind him that what goes around comes around and that karmic retribution is a bitch.

If he still goes ahead with it mention that blackmail is an ugly word..... ;)


The thrill's in the chase anyway. If it's just a case of taking a number and getting in line then where's the fun in it.
 
Id say no, 100%.

I have a mate who has a long term girlfriend and regularly goes out with other girls, on one occasion there were 4 at once. He was forever ducking and diving and having to get out of the most incriminating circumstances.

Whenever we go out, I just say to him, I wont drop you in it straight off, but I wont lie for you or cover up in anyway, if im asked a question and the honest answer drops you in it, then so be it.

I think its out of order because his long term girlfriend is a really nice person, I wouldnt know how or what to tell her, or if I even could.
 
There have been times where I could get away with doing the dirty and nobody would know.

I have never done the dirty on any lass I have been with so I hope your mate does the same.
 
Stellios said:
Too true mate, i really dont like it. Its a pain trying to keep your mouth shut when you go out with your mate and his bit on the side.
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Then why go out with them? :confused: Why not only see him alone, with mates (i.e. without his bit on the side) or when he's with his actual partner?
 
He should most definitely NOT sleep with this other girl, but he probably will. He has a lot to lose though.

If he's not getting any at home (for whatever reason) it's gonna be eating him up inside thinking, "it's free sex, I don't have to tell my mates if do actually giver er one, so the missus will never find out...hmmm".

If I was in that situation, I'd hit it, without question. Why? Because I have no morals when drunk, but I'll have one hell of a guilty conscience when I'm sober. :(
 
its one of those questions that you need to be in the situation of the person to really be able to provide an answer.

everyone is saying yes or no based on their own relationship or the impression they get from the persons relationship that is in the situation.

guilt would be the biggest thing, if they can not feel guilty or atleast not show the guilt then it will lead to them probably doing it.

im some situations its better to regret doing something than not doing it, but is this one of them?
 
No. I would never think of cheating if i was in a relationship with someone, if they were the one in a relationship and wanted to cheat with me. Too many people that would get hurt and i wouldn't hurt anyone ever by cheating on them.

SCM
 
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