Arcade Fire said:
Edit: Sequoia, that's a shame because you're one of the small subset of people I'd like to have on my MSN list. I understand entirely that the sentiment might not be reciprocated, though!
There are a number of people from here I'd cheerfully add to MSN if I used it that way, including you. But I don't use it, or forums, that way, I'm afraid.
I like forums when I'm in the mood, but one of the beauties of forums is that I have total control over when they intrude in my life. If I don't have time, have other concerns or am just not in the mood, I don't visit forums. If anyone had been watching my attendance here (which I rather doubt) they'll have noticed regular periods where I disappear, for days (or weeks) at a time. That's because I have other commitments at those times.
MSN comes directly through to me. For reasons of sheer practicality, the number of people that can get me that way is very small indeed and, as I said, limited to family, close friends and a few very important business contacts.
I don't wish to offend, AF, but nobody from any forum has that access, and I don't see it changing. Nothing personal.