Would you SLAP your child..?

Bar said:
Smacking is appropriate in certain circumstances - it is just one of many techniques a parent can use
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perhaps.... assuming the kid doesnt hit back...

im talking about kids that are much stronger than their parents... seriously.... what would you do if your kid belted you back one and he was stronger? get into a fight you'd lose? your choice.
 
I remember about a year or 4 ago, I can't remember what I did actually, but my dad pinned me to the wall, certainly shocked me tbh, he was never the one to hit me, it was normally my mum slapping my arse, although when you get to a certain age this punishment is more weird than effective. Anyway, yeah, I don't think I ever did anything seriously bad after my dad did that, and I have a brilliant relationship with my dad and mum so no damage was done. I think if a child isn't hit as a kid he won't have any sort of respect for authority with his parents. When you are 14-17 you think you are an adult, so if they don't already have some sort of respect for their parents there is no way they will gain it, whereas if as a child they knew they were properly punished as a child for wrongdoings, they should feel bad an remorse for wrongdoing when they are older.
 
dont have any bt would never hit my nephews although have been known to shout at them tell them too shut up when they throw tantrums my god nothing worse than a cryin 4 yr old in fact yeah a crying 3rd old was worse lol


well this has happened once in like 6 months kids are 4 n 8 usually well into the xbox/simpsons/ keyboard at the weekends


stop cryin stop cryin baby please stop cryin
 
I will slap my child, I think it enforces a reaction that its wrong to do something, I truely believe if it was not for my dad's enforcement using slapping that I would be some scally good for nothing with a dead end job...

Stelly
 
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