I would - I don't think that makes me particularly angelic either. I'm simply not a ****
No bigger turn off than being offered it on a plate. Rather enjoy the fun of the chase tbh. I don't mind thinking it's a sure thing which is different from having somebody come up to you and ask for it. It's cheap and easy.
Nothing like a good ol' chase ^_^
As long as it's not down an alley way, that's the wrong kind of chase
I would trust my girlfriend in this situation, I can't speak for your's because I don't know her.
How long have you been together and has she ever done anything to break trust?
At the end of the day, it's pretty normal to feel uneasy about this sort of situation.
Let's just hope she can run faster scared, than I can aroused
This... although in your shoes I would just tell her that I'm not at all happy about it and the guest can stay with his mate, the ex. If she has a problem with this I would question her feelings towards me.
She may have given you a courtesy heads up but my guess is that your input isn't really requested and anything but full agreement will be met with much pouting, offense being taken and dog houses being populated by yourself.