Ahh I see! Personally, that would do my head in! I'd find it too weird speaking and then hearing myself - but each to their own!.
Shawrey
I managed to suss it out in the end, there are two areas on the Xbox you can adjust mic monitoring.
It's not as bad as it sounds, it's very faint but just gives you enough feedback to know you're not yelling. It's instant feedback also, no delay, otherwise that would be highly annoying.
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