so..i've been stupid again

Hedge said:
Oh god , even telling people on Facebook status updates... thats seriously lame

thats the reason I removed myself from facebook cos i was sick of reading crap like that.

hope ya learn from that mistake :)
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*groans* How I hate the whole 'let's tell everyone everything on facebook' thing.

Makes me cringe the way people broadcast their life on there.

I've heard of many people who broadcast info that surely no one, especially not friends would want to hear.

I don't use facebook, or farcebook as I say to the gf, she uses it herself.

Incidently, I met her over the internet, we've got a sort of 'long distance' relationship, but in reality it's not that long distance.

She only lives in stoke, so it takes her an hour to drive down or about an hour and a half for me to train it up there as I don't drive at the moment.

Works very well for us and it's been going well and getting better with time, going on 4 years now.

We see eachother on the weekends, which in reality isn't that little considering we both work, and she's in full time university and hasn't got too much time to watch the soaps, never mind anything else.

We met when I was 15 and she was 16, I'm 19 now and she's nearly 20.
 
I was part of a couple of free dating sites but after no interest I just left. I don't think Internet relationships work (or am I misunderstanding the OP?) unless you meet up pretty quickly. But then real-life meetings with girls don't work for me either, so "meh" :(
 
[TW]Fox;13789293 said:
Thats a bit of a blanket statement is it not?
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Yes, and one that does me well. It can work in rare cases and cases where you've lived close together and then one person goes away for a month or two but will be coming back.

Sitting on a train for 3 hours just to see a girlfriend week in week out is a plain pain in the arse. I speak from experience here, I've been in two long distance relationships and it is so much hard work.
 
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Janesy B said:
Yes, and one that does me well. It can work in rare cases and cases where you've lived close together and then one person goes away for a month or two but will be coming back.

Sitting on a train for 3 hours just to see a girlfriend week in week out is a plain pain in the arse. I speak from experience here, I've been in two long distance relationships and it is so much hard work.
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Then they was not worth the effort ;)

Relationships aint easy, you will learn one day
 
Janesy B said:
Yes, and one that does me well. It can work in rare cases and cases where you've lived close together and then one person goes away for a month or two but will be coming back.

Sitting on a train for 3 hours just to see a girlfriend week in week out is a plain pain in the arse. I speak from experience here, I've been in two long distance relationships and it is so much hard work.
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And I speak from experience as well, and its a completely different experience to yours. Sounds like your girl just wasn't worth it. So, as with any relationship it depends on the people in it and blanket statements are just that - blanket statements unlikely to be true for everyone.

Just because you couldn't manage it doesn't mean other people cannot.
 
secretspy said:
well if he saw me as a friend why flirt with me and i dont mean gentle flirting i mean saying about how he'd love to cuddle up with me and other stuff

he's always said how he'd want more than friends but cos of the distance its not possible

ive waited 7 years and the thing i really long for is to just hug him. I feel more for him but just to have a really good hug would mean so much.

when i got upset just a minute ago the first person i thought of to talk to was him but obviously it was about him so i couldnt
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Sounds like he just told you things you wanted to hear to be honest, and that he kept you on the backburner so to speak as his fallback option, and now that he's found someone else he's less interested.

That's a pretty harsh thing for me to say I guess but that's probably the reality of it.

It is also possible that in the time you two weren't really matey that he's just drifted away and he hasn't got the heart/guts to tell you that.
 
Marky said:
No most OcUKers will take anything these days :p
See Exhibit A and B below...
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Especially considering nobody knows what OP looks like.

SCIENTIFIC STUDIES have recently proven the blinding obvious in that men choose women who look good over anything else so it could be most men on here are not in fact real manly-men :eek:
 
Darrrrrling, dinners ready!

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On a more serious note, he's strung you along for SEVEN years - move on, pretend he's dead. There is more to life than this one clownass. There's plenty more clownass in the sea.
 
Hedge said:
7 years... you missed the relationship boat there. Definately in friend territory after that length of time.
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There is no "friend zone" when dealing with men, unlike women.

With men it's "women they've ****ed, and women they haven't ****ed" anything else is irrelevant :p
 
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