Engagement

During naughty time, ask her to gently put her finger up your back passage. Then use the abundance of nerve endings in your anus to gauge the size of her finger. She'll never know what you're up to ;)
 
sara said:
I'd love to be surprised when the time comes!

He's probably smart enough to find one of my friends who knows pretty much what I like - though it's becoming fairly obvious I prefer older traditional looking things to modern stuff... :)

As long as it's sturdy and withstands a few knocks... and he knows I have an aversion to diamonds, so it should be easy for him, I hope!

Good luck, chap - and yes, stealing some rings from a jewellery box may work well, or make sure you know somewhere that does resizing for a good price (so if in doubt, go a little larger) :)
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I agree. I think it'd be nice to have something chosen by your other half. It'd make me feel super special to know he'd taken the time to choose it. And I'd hope he knew the kind of thing I'd like, if we'd been together long enough to be feel ready to get married. I'd rather he chose it and it was the wrong size, than go together to choose it! ;)

I wonder what happened with the OP in the end...
 
The way I'd do it would be to buy one of those packets of Haribo mix and use one of the gummy rings.

But I'd put it in a nice presentation box and everything, hoping that she'd see the funny side...
 
qwerty said:
During naughty time, ask her to gently put her finger up your back passage. Then use the abundance of nerve endings in your anus to gauge the size of her finger. She'll never know what you're up to ;)
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Thats one sick and twisted mind you got there, I like it, congrats, well done! :D
 
RDM said:
For all those saying "borrow a ring that fits that finger" what if the woman doesn't wear any rings on that particular finger? Most single women I know don't. My wife certainly didn't, the only rings she has worn on that finger are her engagement ring and wedding ring.
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I'd like to know this too. I think the index and ring finger are supposed to be pretty similar in size, no idea how accurate this is though. If this works then I could steal the one she wears on the same hand but on the index finger no probs!
 
mpledge52 said:
I'd like to know this too. I think the index and ring finger are supposed to be pretty similar in size, no idea how accurate this is though. If this works then I could steal the one she wears on the same hand but on the index finger no probs!
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Nah my index finger is bigger than my ring finger. Not buy loads but enough that it would be too big.

My boyfriend just picked the ring himself, they only had one in stock that he wanted which was too big. Had to be without for 2 weeks to get a new one ordered in. I just bought a cheapy £10 replacement ring to wear for the 2 weeks without.

Ask her mum? My mum knew my ring size. God knows how as I only have 1 other ring.

Aero said:
my girlfriend recently scoffed at the idea of her work collegue receiving a £700 engagement ring....:(
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I thought £700 was about right for a ring, not too expensive not too cheap. Found out my boyfriend spent quite a bit more than that. Wasn't too impressed about that, he shouldn't has spent that much. We need to buy a house! I would have said yes to a £100 ring. It's the marriage that is important not all the other stuff
 
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loopylou said:
I thought £700 was about right for a ring, not too expensive not too cheap. Found out my boyfriend spent quite a bit more than that. Wasn't too impressed about that, he shouldn't has spent that much. We need to buy a house! I would have said yes to a £100 ring. It's the marriage that is important not all the other stuff
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Yer it made me laugh to which she was mortified, oh well it may cost me more but it appears to have bought me some more time in the long term :D
 
My other half was buying me a ring as a birthday present and measured my finger "for fun" and then measured her own to keep me from working out what she was doing and I made a note of it, as I proposed about 2 months later

Aero said:
my girlfriend recently scoffed at the idea of her work collegue receiving a £700 engagement ring....:(
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My mate spent £750 on an engagement ring about 3 months later they had a massive row, he called a few unforgivable things so she pawned the ring and managed to get £600 back

OP how did it go?
 
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Aero said:
Yer it made me laugh to which she was mortified, oh well it may cost me more but it appears to have bought me some more time in the long term :D
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Just lie and tell her it was a 1.5k ring. Unless she is some sort of diamond expert she will never know. If she gets it valued act all pee'd off that some other jewellers ripped you off
 
mac1st3 said:
When I got engaged, we went searching for rings, found one she liked but didn't get it at the time, I went back and bought it and had to have it resized, when we came home from uni I told her it wasn't ready in time, just so I could surprise her :)

would've preferred to have it all a surprise, but ahh well
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i did similar to yourself;)
 
Not such a grand idea taking her shopping for a ring. I told this story before. We went ring shopping. Her mom and 4 of her best friends came with us. I spent 8 hours trawling these women all around Oxford and Bond street before she shrieked 'This is the one!' Excitement all around, I got passed the ring and pushed to the cashier. 'That will be £**** please sir' .... *gulp .. wtf* I turned around to them to protest but only got red devil-like lazer eyes back from Mom & Friends before I even said a word. Pulled out the card and was ill for 6 months afterwards.
 
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