Am i being tight ( gf related thread )?

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She views you as a meal ticket and will dump you the moment you ask her to pay for anything. It's best you say nothing and continue to suppress your feelings.
 
No you aren't being tight. Sounds a bit odd to me, just because you offered to pay once when she was going to buy a round doesn't mean she shouldn't offer again. I'd always expect to pay my share unless I was told by someone that it was their treat.
 
Don't go on paying for all of it else it will be harder to get out of it. ^ on what they said you could take enough to cover half so it could be easier to suggest half and half*?

* In both meanings of the word.
 
When the bill comes smile and just say “shall we split it” but of course you could be a gentleman and say nothing.
 
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lol at the comments in here!

Shes hardly taking him for a ride if they only have been out 3 times together!

If it were me, I would pay for say the first couple of months or say the first 7-10 dates whatever comes sooner. After that I would wanting to be going 50/50.
 
If she is anything like a decent person she would have offered to pay more anyway. Whether she has money or not.
 
Get her to pay for half, if she likes you she won't mind.

Otherwise next time don't bother with all the blithering around just go and hire a woman for an hour, no strings.
 
Martini1991 said:
If it were me, I would pay for say the first couple of months or say the first 7-10 dates whatever comes sooner. After that I would wanting to be going 50/50.
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I would no pay everything from the very start...

If you pay everything from when you first get together then they always expect you to pay ;)
 
Depends on your income/her income IMO

I dated a self employed physiotherapist who was on at least 50k - we split everything.

I dated a 'dancer/model' who's only actual regular income was part time bar work - I paid for pretty much everything.
 
dowie said:
Depends on your income/her income IMO

I dated a self employed physiotherapist who was on at least 50k - we split everything.

I dated a 'dancer/model' who's only actual regular income was part time bar work - I paid for pretty much everything.
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Hopefully the ladies remember to bring their pay slips to the date.
 
chaparral said:
I would no pay everything from the very start...

If you pay everything from when you first get together then they always expect you to pay ;)
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I wouldn't say that, again if she is interested she won't mind.

No idea why you added a wink but hey i will too ;);)
 
Man up and pay the bill, do you want to **** her or not :D
 
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