I don't follow that.
Always 50/50 or depending on the situation, or whoever planned it, all me or all them. I don't need to prove anything, nor does she.
Grew out of social trends like that a long time ago.
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I don't follow that.
Always 50/50 or depending on the situation, or whoever planned it, all me or all them. I don't need to prove anything, nor does she.
Grew out of social trends like that a long time ago.
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Come to think of it, if I knew she wasn't well off and I liked her I would pay atleast for the few nights out. It wouldn't bother me to start with.
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You think thats a problem? Mine just text me saying she was now at the pub with her friends and that the taxi driver gave them all beer... Idiots...
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I don' get you. You refused her offer, then complain on here that she isn't buying a round.
This pretty much. Just wait next time until she asks if she should get the next round and then say yes. If she hardly ever does it though you should probably say something.
Get her in bed asap. If she's a dirty minx, man up and pay. If she spreads and stares, demand some scratch from her next time you're out.
My first few dates with my current girlfriend we split everything. We never actually spoke about money, but mentally, we both kept score. 7 years down the line, I pay for everything
My first few dates with my current girlfriend we split everything. We never actually spoke about money, but mentally, we both kept score. 7 years down the line, I pay for everything
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Why should you pay for everything just because you have a penis?
Just complain about the cost of stuff next time, say she's taking the michael.
Just complain about the cost of stuff next time, say she's taking the michael.
Just work it into the conversation. Ask her what her views on equal rights are, then work in the question in regards to "treating a lady", for instance like on a night out. Are men still expected to pay?
If she says 'yes', then pay, smash pasty, and don't call again.
If she says 'yes', then pay, smash pasty, and don't call again.
As I understand, it's equal in the workplace and pretty much everywhere else, apart from the courting game (read, pay for s***). That's still sacred and holy turf where you cannot do enough for her. It's suppose to be all about her and what cute tricks you can perform (and pay!, don't forget paying!) to amuse and endear.
At least this is what I understand and read between the lines in years of dealing with this specie.
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A few people said already - going halves. My parents have always said to go halves when dating and I did the same, a generation later.
Hahaha ! I think this is the best advice i've seen on here. Simply brilliant.
So you've been out with her 3 times and one of those times she offered to pay, In reality you've been out twice where she hasn't offered to pay, she's hardly using you as a meal ticket. As men aren't we supposed to spoil them a bit and make an impression?
Whatever happened to romance!!!
Whatever happened to romance!!!