Older women

PapaLazaru · 9 Dec 2010 at 07:35

Well thanks for all the advice ladies and gents.

I am going to try and not think about it and just crack on.

Taking her out for dinner tonight and looking forwards to it.

SexyGreyFox · 9 Dec 2010 at 07:54

Go for it.
I'm with a 51 year old and she's great.

Phate · 9 Dec 2010 at 08:00

Mines 9 years older than me...get along brilliantly

oh and I'm 22.

Gamefreak501 · 9 Dec 2010 at 08:03

I don't think age is as big a problem.

My girlfriend is 10.5 years older than me, I'm 25 and we do get on well.

Give the new girl a try and you might just have a long lasting affair

[TW]Fox · 9 Dec 2010 at 08:11

kingy666 said:
5 years is nothing, i am 35 and mf GF is 53. i did worry at first but in the end i thought she makes me happy so stick with it. She is the best thing thats happened in my life and we have been together for 7 years now.

Problem is, which nobody ever thinks about, if its a long term thing when you are 50 and still in your prime she is going to be a pensioner..

lurkio · 9 Dec 2010 at 08:38

My last gigf was 6 years older than me , sadly she came with too much baggage

mike66uk · 9 Dec 2010 at 10:14

I prefer younger women (no paedo).

nicks3607 · 9 Dec 2010 at 10:32

Good man. No problem with older women, my ex-wife was seven years older than me.

My current GF/partner/other half is three years younger than me - which is quite cool, as I accelerate into my decrepitude

Point is - it's how you feel together. Actual age numbers have no relevance. And you might just make her feel fantastic, being with a guy in his mid-thirties.

[TW]Fox · 9 Dec 2010 at 10:38

nicks3607 said:
Good man. No problem with older women, my ex-wife was seven years older than me

I would call a divorce a pretty terminal problem

Phate · 9 Dec 2010 at 10:38

[TW]Fox;17962444 said:
I would call a divorce a pretty terminal problem

\o/

233 · 9 Dec 2010 at 10:44

Morba said:
Slightly? You are only hitting on a barely legal girl.
That's wrong at 22 imo

ignore them everyones jealous your smashing 16 yr old pasty

Jonny69 said:
5 years isn't much when you're in your thirties. It wouldn't bother me.

indeed hardly an age gap once you reach that age yourself she's rich and if she's not to bad looking and lets your smash her pasty get in there

Wizzfizz · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:13

[TW]Fox;17961758 said:
Problem is, which nobody ever thinks about, if its a long term thing when you are 50 and still in your prime she is going to be a pensioner..

When you say prime at 50, prime at what?

Sierry · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:14

Do the creepy age sums: Take her age, divide it by 2, then add 7 years. If it's not less that your age then you're fine

Abraham · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:35

the OP is absolutely fine, so long as they're on a similar wavelength I don't think anyone else would know they were different ages unless she looks old and he looks young.

The guy boffing a 16 year old, isn't that dodgy legal ground, obviously the age of consent is 16, but I thought there was something legally dodgy about sex with an under 18 yo by an over 18 yo. Statutory rape comes to mind but couldn't find anything from a quick google.

iv-tecman · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:42

PapaLazaru said:
Well thanks for all the advice ladies and gents.

I am going to try and not think about it and just crack on.

Taking her out for dinner tonight and looking forwards to it.

That’s the spirit. Enjoy your time with your new lady friend. Just enjoy the fact you’ve got someone who you like that equally wants to spend time with you. Have a good time with her… *wink*

Camalot · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:46

n1blo said:
5 Years at 34 is not a lot!

I dated a 25 year old... I was 19!

Age generally isn't an issue, don't see why it would be. Sometimes objectives can be different that's when problems arise.

This is correct ive always gone for girls my age and its never worked. I'm 25 and now seeing a 19yo girl and i have never got on with anyone as much as i have with her.

B1C3P · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:48

^TANK^ said:
**** dating a sixteen year old , thats basically a child in a womans body imo, I guess valentines day is easy McDonald's followed by Toys R Us or the other way round take your pick.

Im 20 so it's not termed "that bad" as some make out, but tbh even if I was 25 or 30 I still would haha.

DJMK4 · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:50

Depending on how things go, im 26 and if something were to happen, I would be seeing a 33 year old woman

mattyprice4004 · 9 Dec 2010 at 11:57

Wizzfizz said:
When you say prime at 50, prime at what?

Bingo, obviously.

steve-h · 9 Dec 2010 at 12:16

Abraham said:
the OP is absolutely fine, so long as they're on a similar wavelength I don't think anyone else would know they were different ages unless she looks old and he looks young.

The guy boffing a 16 year old, isn't that dodgy legal ground, obviously the age of consent is 16, but I thought there was something legally dodgy about sex with an under 18 yo by an over 18 yo. Statutory rape comes to mind but couldn't find anything from a quick google.

u jelly?

age of consent for sex is 16, it's the law, so it must be morally correct.