Longest wait?

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:41

Hey all.

Flame me all you want, it'll be entertaining. My gf (of 5 years) has told me that we're going on a break. We're not speaking for a month. It's going to be the longest month of my life.

Have any of you been in a situation where a day, week, month or longer just seemed incomprehensibly long?

Edit: just adding some info. The reason she wanted the break is that she doesn't know if she see's me out of habit or because she wants to. She's got a busy life right now and she's not sure if I'm holding her back.

JBuk · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:43

Psy-Blade said:
Hey all.

Flame me all you want, it'll be entertaining. My gf (of 5 years) has told me that we're going on a break. We're not speaking for a month. It's going to be the longest month of my life.

Have any of you been in a situation where a day, week, month or longer just seemed incomprehensibly long?

tell her she's dumped tbh

heard this story so many times and it rarely ends well, it's usually an excuse to break up and let you down gently

happened to a mate at work and he told his fiance that she was dumped, a few weeks after he met another girl who he is now engaged to instead whilst his ex was distraught , serves her right tbh

Viper² · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:43

I've been waiting to get with this girl for months but she had a boyfriend of 5 years. She's splitting up with him soon to be with me.

Zefan · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:44

The 20 seconds between being able to refresh 'new posts'.

Justintime · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:44

Milkybk said:
This won't end well.

This.

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:45

Viper² said:
I've been waiting to get with this girl for months but she had a boyfriend of 5 years. She's splitting up with him soon to be with me.

Haha, she's promised me that there's no one else. It's either she wants to be in a relationship or that she wants to be independent for a while. Her and her mum are really close, and I get on with her mum too.

She's been really good at talking to me and said that at no point has she mentioned another guy.

sanaxe1 · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:45

Not a good sign

Bennie-Mac · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:46

Sleep with all her friends. If/when she finds out "WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!" /ross from friends

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:47

Bennie-Mac said:
Sleep with all her friends. If/when she finds out "WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!" /ross from friends

lol, Actually she said the break is just from me, as I talk too much and go in circles, and want to see her all the time when I worry. She said we're not seeing other people during the break.

Nitefly · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:47

Zefan said:
The 20 seconds between being able to refresh 'new posts'.

Time to get broadband?

Sorry to hear that OP, I hope it ends well for you.

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:48

Milkybk said:
I love how you're trying to deny the fact that she's getting stuffed harder than a Christmas turkey right now.

Haha, if I didn't trust her enough to believe her now I wouldn't be with her. She's not that type of girl.

JBuk · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:49

Psy-Blade said:
She's not that type of girl.

:doh:

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:49

Milkybk said:
You're not with her.

I guess. I guess people have different definitions of a break? We're still together, there was no break up, or goodbyes. We've got a date set in a month where we're both going out for dinner and a drink.

eatcustard · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:50

Worst, I've just split up with my girlfriend thread ever.

doofer · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:50

Ahh, It's that time of year again when after the Nativity comes all the Naivety.

Psy-Blade · 26 Dec 2010 at 15:51

eatcustard said:
Worst, I've just split up with my girlfriend thread ever.

Haha. Well I walked to my car this morning after talking to her. Walked back in and told her to end it if that's what she wants. She told me she honestly didn't know. Hence the time apart.