Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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NeverWinter said:
Age is just a number ;)
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Orange Peel said:
That what I think, however I'm sure some women are put off once you get over a certain age.

I get the feeling most think I'm past it at 35 lol.
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I know, what I was getting at was that most people who seem to frequent this forum appear to be younger than me. I dont look 31, certainly don't feel it. :)
 
knip said:
Can I ask what constitues a "porker" just I am a size 14 (currently in the process of losing weight) but it doesn't fill me with much confidence about getting back out there, when I see comments like yours. Im not having a go, just wondering what you mean when you say that word.
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Size 14 is overweight for me, but then we all have different opinions of what is and what isn't.

I'm no athlete myself, I put on 3 stone when I got married and am currently losing the weight I gained. Regarding confidence, if your happy with yourself then it doesn't matter what others think. If you're not happy with yourself, then regain the confidence you use to have then get back out there.

Personally, I do this because I'm not happy with my current weight and want to feel better about myself. I feel I let myself go once I found someone to settle down with - I certainly wouldn't want to go dating people if I was at my current weight, as I'd lack the confidence in myself.
 
Orange Peel said:
That what I think, however I'm sure some women are put off once you get over a certain age.

I get the feeling most think I'm past it at 35 lol.
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I normally add 10 years to my age for the max age of a guy (so sadly this year that changes to....33....ok I lied it's 36)

But that's not to say that if I met a guy who was a year above that, that I wouldn't give him the time of day :)
 
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Well to me weight is NOT an issue. I'm a personality guy. I see the attraction in big and small, becasue physical does count. But I've been with 15 stone girls and 8 stone girls, makes no difference to me.

You and me baby aint nothing but mammals... ;)
 
Dup said:
Well to me weight is NOT an issue. I'm a personality guy. I see the attraction in big and small, becasue physical does count. But I've been with 15 stone girls and 8 stone girls, makes no difference to me.

You and me baby aint nothing but mammals... ;)
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I'm a personality guy too, besides weight isn't massively important to me, I've been attracted to slim girls and also found bigger girls that are gorgeous, it's all about how they look as a whole to me. Not that it matters, I'm ginger, so forever alone for me!
 
I've just had a response from the lady who'm I really got on well with after chatting for a few weeks with. Wants to meet up next week.

I have 2 really horrible problems niggling at my thoughts.

One, I really really hope she isn't too overweight. I mean I'm heavily built so I really don't mind a figured girl, in fact that'd be fantastic! but I do have limits. I guess I'd just try and end it as soon as possible.

second problem is my current "financial" situation, I earn a very poor wage, as of the moment I'm a student and work for family 3 days a week for small spends (basically I'm gaining a shed load of experience) and worry at the fact I won't be able to go anywhere or do something, I've been told this isn't really a problem as long as I'm not on the dole but It's the BIG main reason why I've never actually wanted to do anything for years.

Guess I'm just getting really nervous as I always do.
 
Sinny - Stop. Take a deep breath and count to ten. You're overthinking things before anythings happened. Lots of people have financial issues at the moment but not everything has to cost money.
Just try to stay positive and if things don't work out then it wasn't meant to be.
Good luck :)
 
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