Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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I never get anyone message me first :(

Looking at "who has viewed you" only 2 people who I clicked "would like to meet"

Must be doing something wrong, I expect it is my profile pic, got a bit of a grump on.
 
Big Chris said:
I just got back from a date Cruiser, I took the hand she offered when we first met and went straight for the cheek, then again when we parted ways at the end of the night.

She was a nice girl, quite pretty and we chatted for a couple of hours without any awkward moments, she's since text to say she didn't think there was any chemistry which I'm inclined to agree with.

Thing is, I'm curious as to how differently I'd have acted if there was some chemistry! I'm still new to this whole dating lark so I guess I'll know when it happens...
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yeah, i was thinking should i have went for a peck on the cheek.

well i msg her and she replied back so think i'll try and arrange one more date and see how we get on and will go for a kiss after that one.
yeah it's still all new to me too, need to battle on
 
i met my bf on pof! Id only been on one other date before him from Pof, and it was odd with the first one, because we chatted ok on pof, then on phone, but when i met hm it was like "you are REALLY boring"

and then he tried to kiss me and he was a disgusting kisser.

so i sort of expected the same with my now bf, and put off our first date once, and it was only that he seemed disappointed that i thought i might as well try!

that will be 2 years ago in 10 days :D
 
My heads a bit screwed up at the minute.
I was dating a girl for about 9 weeks. Only had about 7 dates but we kept in touch all the while, a lot of texts and stuff.
She was very full on from the start and clearly very keen on me. I was invited to her place after just the 2nd date and spent other evenings at hers too which was very nice.
There was a lot of chemistry there.

Things seemed to be going well but she only saw me when she said :rolleyes: She told me she had strong feelings for me and a lot of other nice stuff.
Soon as I started showing more interest and asking when I could see her next she told me she felt pressured and ended it. She made a lot of excuses and said we didn't click.

She was obviously just after something very casual but why lead me on with nice comments and messages about feelings if she wanted to keep it casual.
I guess I shouldn't have put all my eggs in one basket but I could kick myself now because if I hadn't of fell for her leading me on I would have held back a bit more and not appeared so keen.
Plenty more out there I guess but how can someone change their opinions/feelings at the flick of a switch. :( so confusing and complicated.
 
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^^ typical 'rent-a-boy' girl tbh.
forget and move on ... seriously not worth the thought process.

not what you want to hear but you need to hear it.

women like that will **** with your mind to the tenth degree - you are very lucky to be out of that relatively early on.
 
iamtheoneneo said:
women like that will **** with your mind to the tenth degree - you are very lucky to be out of that relatively early on.
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You're right, I fell for her looks,charm and fiestyness. (Also the fact that she did a lot of chasing to start with)
I should have read the signs earlier if I wanted the fun to last a bit longer but in the long run I would probably have been hurt more.
 
R5GTT said:
You're right, I fell for her looks,charm and fiestyness. (Also the fact that she did a lot of chasing to start with)
I should have read the signs earlier if I wanted the fun to last a bit longer but in the long run I would probably have been hurt more.
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I've fallen the same way 3 times in a row now, lesson learnt i like to think. They chase you, you fall for them, its no fun anymore for them..." or so it seems. Thankfully its always ended within a few dates and not further down the line.

Women >.<
 
robz21 said:
I've fallen the same way 3 times in a row now.
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That sucks, and what are your thoughts on it?
It would have never worked in the long run as it probably just wasn't meant to be?? or you should have not let on about your feelings or appeared keen?
(but then they would probably still end it because you're not showing any interest :eek: )

I guess when you meet the right one it will just all fall into place and you will know it's right. That's what everyone seems to say anyway :)
 
My thoughts on it were "**** sake, why again?"

One was "it'd never have worked, our jobs mean we work opposite shifts and could never see each other"

One was "guess there wasnt really that spark"

And one was a case of showing feelings too soon, maybe appearing too keen, and like you say, if i hadnt done that, she'd have "friendzoned" me anyway!

I do believe in "the one" and sooner or later she'll come along, i'm just putting in some serious effort to find her!
 
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