Internet Dating.....Who Has Done it?!

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theres one for geeks, think its geek2geek or something, i've tried them but they seem more useful to find someone to hook up with for uncomplicated sex
 
I have an update on this crazy woman situation.

Orange Peel said:
I had an interesting date last night which was the second with this person. To say she a little bonkers is an understatement. Here's a few points from the evening.

- She like to play games by not always saying what she mean. This is OK if flirting etc but she follows no system so I can't tell if she's being serious or not. She says I don't talk enough but when I do she turns her nose up as if I'm boring her. She says this is just playful flirting but does it ALL THE TIME!

- She says she's playing hard to get yet wouldn't stop touching me and getting very close, all the time!

- At the end of the date she basically said that she wanted to have sexy time with me but I'd have to wait until the next date. Not for one moment thinking I may not want to have it with her or have any say in the matter.

- I also told her I had to leave around 10:30pm as I'd been driving all day and needed an earlier night. Despite this she kept saying "Just 2 more minutes" which was OK for a while but at 11pm when I really need to go (40 minute drive home) she get's all "So you'd rather go home then spend a few minites more with me".. I'm I in the wrong thinking this is quite selfish when she only have a 5 minute drive home and isn't at work in the morning?

She's come out of a dull marriage around a year ago and I'm the first person she's fancied since then (I give her butterflies so she says) which is great except she's all or nothing. An example of this is when we're sitting togther one moment she's playing hard to get then the next she's all over me at the bar as if she's trying to show to everyone that we're an item.

Overall it was an interesting date and she's really attractive but she's just to bat **** crazy for me!
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Now the story so far..

A few days went by then she emailed me asking for another date. I made my excuses saying I was busy hoping she would give up. To my surprise she replied with a Dear John email which said she wasn't ready for a relationship and that she had enjoyed our time together. She stressed the 'not ready' part and that it wasn't my fault lol. She did say that it would be nice to hear back from me but knew I was really busy and that I take ages to reply anyway (Bearing in mind I had sent the last email 4 days previous to this and this was her first contact. I usually reply the same or next day) So I leave it until the next day and reply with a polite 'No worries, I understand' type email.

Anway fast forward to last night when I reply to her latest email which was an update on her week and all very friendly (remember she wants to stay friends) So I reply within minutes of receiveing the email with a response to her update and adding a little about my holiday plans in October etc.

Now this is where her true crazy comes into the open (AGAIN)

She comes back with the following.

Crazy Nutter Woman said:
That's nice! It's a good job I stopped myself falling for you before you jetted off around the world. Well at least you can now flirt with you facebook girlfriends (opps I mean friends) openly!!!!
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Now, just to respond to this.. She knew way before our first date that I was going on holdiay in October. She called things off because she 'wasn't ready for a relationship' and I've not changed my facebook habits one bit. I have several female friends who are just that and no more. The funny thing is she said her profile was messed up (I couldn't see her wall) and remember she still lives with her ex, yet I'm the bad guy for continuing my life, as I had during our dates, after she 'ends' it.

I hope all this is making sense lol.

I was going to reply to her rant with a WTF kind of email but in all honestly I think she has major issues and it may cause more trouble.

I think she was expecting me to fight for her after her Dear john email and when I didn't she was just looking for an excuse to have a go. I really wish I had video footage of our dates as this post doesn't really give a proper idea of how bat **** crazy she is.

I belive I've well and truly dodged a bullet with this one.
 
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yep 100% loco, with serious trust issues.

Don't even bother with the friendship part in my opinion, seems like a lot of work and trouble.
 
I think the craziness actually attracts me. My ex was clearly a little bit odd/mental before I met her, but that just made me much, much more interested. I think I'm fascinated by things I don't understand, like you want to play with fire because it's cool...

Hmm, need to sort my life out :p
 
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