Fancy dress, am i being harsh!
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I deal with it by knowing that my gf is with me because she loves me, not because I spend money on her. Nothing quite like a non-materialistic partner.
All I'm saying guys is that if you look after your partner you know by how you are together that she can go out how she wants to dress and you know she'll come back to you just having a good night with her friends.
And "What goes on tour stays on tour" mentality is not worth stressing over.
And "What goes on tour stays on tour" mentality is not worth stressing over.
Hahahahahaha.
I'm going to point my girlfriend to this thread to tell you how much of a mug you truly are.
Agree, wasn't really aimed directly at you just what you said gave me a good chance to post it.
That's a given, but you seem to rely too heavily on the monetary aspect of it all. If you were to lose your job and struggle with money for a while, are you saying she won't stick it out for love and just move on to the next guy with a fat wallet?
Mhmm heads up, usually in those marriages both partners cheat a lot. So if you're not, GodMac, you're missing out 
But I do not think it's that type of marriage at least I hope not. I think you are not giving your wife enough credit (LOL no-pun intended). If she saw what you have written here she'd either go to her mother's for a month or two or at least throw a huge argument.
But I do not think it's that type of marriage at least I hope not. I think you are not giving your wife enough credit (LOL no-pun intended). If she saw what you have written here she'd either go to her mother's for a month or two or at least throw a huge argument.
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it is not a party as such, its a bunch of girls going out dressed in anne summer outfits meant for the bedroom, going around pubs and clubs. not an actual fancy dress party at a house/pub with loads others
Ummmm, get her to have some fun with you in the outfit before she goes?
You need to sort your trust issues.
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Just do that my friend but be sure that your relationship is 100% because however much all of you think that your relationship is sound....as time goes on and the honey moon period is over if you or she is not making you feel needed, appreciated or loved then you will not last the course.
With a lot (not all) women, they like the luxuries in life and you only need to hear the bitchiness in the school play ground to hear what one person has over the next person.
With men its more shallow as its mainly based on sex or the remote control.
If all these things were taken away, as with any relationship it would be a strain. Just like if any of you lost your jobs and had no money coming in, can you guarantee your partner would stay with you and nothing would change!
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Again it isnt so much about trust, just more about what she is wearing. who she is going with, where she is going. its inapropriate for someone to be doing while in a relationship! i would not do it to my other half why should she do it to me! they will stand out like a sore thumb, which im sure is what they are hoping for?
Mhmm heads up, usually in those marriages both partners cheat a lot. So if you're not, GodMac, you're missing out
Sounds like the voice of experience there!
(/Frank Butcher) Go on treacle, take yourself up west and treat yourself to something a bit tasty (/Frank Butcher off)
Laughing. A lot.
Over 3 years and neither of us have much money, she loves me for me.
And to your last point, yes.
Yep - I can say that 100%
From the words of Akon, "I'm so paid"
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