I have read the Koran, the Talmud, the Torah, the Vedas and many other religious books. Ignorance is not a strong position to criticise from.
Haven't read the whole thread but totally agree with your previous post. Ignorance is not an excuse.
Was marriage even related to religion a couple of centuries ago?
Marriage is a biblical concept and is an institution established by God - the bible makes that perfectly clear. Simply looking at the relationship between God and Israel is the easiest example – also Christ and the Church.
I wasn't alive a couple of centuries ago. Yes it was still a church ceremony but I do often wonder how people thought about it.
Same way that funerals have Christian sayings but it is not often thought of as a religious ceremony.
I think you're getting confused between religion/tradition and culture. Culture adopt elements of religion/tradition and is absolutely the case of a typical church-based wedding ceremony having bible readings whether or not those getting married are of that religion or not.
The point is, just because something like a wedding or funeral includes a bible verse doesn't mean the bible lays out the format, it's purely an interpretation of the institution through culture/tradition.
Saying that you have hit the nail on the head a bit – non-Christians having a church based wedding always makes me wonder why, if they have no belief, do they have a church based wedding? Obviously apart from the buildings typically being nice service venues etc. Don't get me wrong, I think it's good to get married in a church, just interesting thought.
I was brought up methodist and their churches have very specific formats of services from weddings, funerals and dedications (or christenings as some call them) - this is wholly down to culture/tradition but generally structured around the biblical concept of marriage.
Wedding rings, big ceremonies and the signing of a piece of paper is just our cultural, traditional and legal take on it but under the umbrella of a religious ceremony.
Back to (sort of) the point - the bible makes it absolutely clear that the act of homosexuality is an 'abomination' (Lev 18:22). My question to those wanting gay marriage legalised is:
- why would you want to be a part of an institution (marriage) that is based on Judeo-Christian teaching that clearly condemns
the act of homosexuality?
Also, whilst on the point, I think it is absolutely wrong for any minister to be forced to perform gay marriages.
Back on topic - God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve
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