Play Quake Live. It's free and the skill level is so high it'll take you years (literally) to master
You can also run it on pretty much any machine.The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread
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Play Quake Live. It's free and the skill level is so high it'll take you years (literally) to master
You can also run it on pretty much any machine.
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Play Quake Live. It's free and the skill level is so high it'll take you years (literally) to master
thats a good suggestion, i just dont have the energy/time to master it!
I don't need to be, but love and affection make up a large parts of the basic human needs and to me part of what life is all about. I want to share my life with someone and share theirs, it enriches things. It's programmed in to us to desire this.
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Play Witcher 2, KSP, Mass Effect series, Skyrim....
mass effect seems a good idea, i never got into skyrim
or i could complete every halo game on legendary! this wouldnt mean spending money!
i was thinking about finally reading the lord of the rings! i LOVE it but ive tried to read the book so many times and just couldnt!
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How do you lot deal with an ex, who after making moves towards you and trying to get with you (which I rejected) getting with someone right in front of you on purpose? It's getting a bit ridiculous now. I was doing a set at a mutual friend's place, then went to the student union bar afterwards. Had to deal with her getting on pretty much everything she could in front of me to hurt me. Constantly. It's all well and good getting with other people (we've been apart since november) but doing it right in front of your ex is harsh.
How do you lot deal with an ex, who after making moves towards you and trying to get with you (which I rejected) getting with someone right in front of you on purpose? It's getting a bit ridiculous now. I was doing a set at a mutual friend's place, then went to the student union bar afterwards. Had to deal with her getting on pretty much everything she could in front of me to hurt me. Constantly. It's all well and good getting with other people (we've been apart since november) but doing it right in front of your ex is harsh.
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I dunno if you are into this stuff but it has helped me out a few times when i am feeling a bit down. Anyway Kevin Smith (AKA Silent Bob from Jay and Silent Bob) Runs a company called Smodcast and there is tonnes of content on there that keeps me smiling. I particularly like Jay and Silent Bob get old. Some funny and shocking stories of Jason Mews drug and sex issues... But its not just about them. There is movie stuff(Hollywood Babble on is quality) and loads more. Its just my sort of humor and may not be to everyones tastes but its something i find keeps my mind off things. Find something like that and download a few podcasts and stick them on your ipod/other mp3 player and listen to that when you have nothing to occupy your mind as one of the worst things is it running through your mind constantly. I know as it happens to me.
She's already taken you for a right mug, failed to change when you gave her the opportunity so cut her out completely, she's not going to change and will just end up hurting you again.
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This will matter less when you realise that you're better off apart from this person or, more accurately, the person you once knew.
It happens and it's crappy and you try to put it to one side until one day you're not trying to put it to one side anymore because it's not important.
e : Just read KaHn's post. If she still posts here then this is a terrible idea Shayper.
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My advice as ive been in this situation before??...just ignore her when she tries to get your attention by doing these things.
In fact the last girl who did that sort of thing with me, it was a long time ago...i just sat there and really just laughed at her and her pathetic attempts to try and 'hurt' me when in reality, it just made me think i was better off without her.
You think thats true? If shes trying to get at you, she will be spying as much as she can!
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Lads (and female lads) quick hug as I'm pretty sure the long distance thing has more or less ended 
Oh well it's been coming a while as she hasn't organised herself to move out of Northern Ireland and I can't move back so there's not all that much I should be upset about.
Just bummed after all the effort we put in over the last year and a bit long distance.
Oh well it's been coming a while as she hasn't organised herself to move out of Northern Ireland and I can't move back so there's not all that much I should be upset about.
Just bummed after all the effort we put in over the last year and a bit long distance.
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Lads (and female lads) quick hug as I'm pretty sure the long distance thing has more or less ended
Oh well it's been coming a while as she hasn't organised herself to move out of Northern Ireland and I can't move back so there's not all that much I should be upset about.
Just bummed after all the effort we put in over the last year and a bit long distance.
Looks like you got sacked mate. Time to go to the job center and start applying for new jobs. Don't bother about your reputation, and the reputation of the clubs and leagues you were at before. If there is a Barca job free, apply for it!
/Man hug.
It all gets better mate. More time for FM it seems
Take pride in the fact that you were able to turn her down in the first place mate. That's a big step in itself. If she chooses to be petty, I'd honestly just laugh at it.
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exactly. sounds like a bit of a street walker
From a slightly different perspective, someone I was with did that to me. Got off with a guy right in front of me. She later told me she wanted to make me feel jealous. Jenny seemed like a fine lass when I met you, do what your heart tells you to do. You only regret the things you haven't done.
To go selfish for a minute. I'm seeing my ex for coffee on Monday. We are at a good point. We were always good friends but never really BF/GF material, we tried to make it work and it didn't and ended up damaging our friendship. 8 months later we are at a good stage.
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Hugs well received
yeah they should its been a bit of a weight on my shoulders and getting me down on and off for a while (still gutted about the effort)Looks like you got sacked mate. Time to go to the job center and start applying for new jobs. Don't bother about your reputation, and the reputation of the clubs and leagues you were at before. If there is a Barca job free, apply for it!
/Man hug.
It all gets better mate. More time for FM it seems
Hahahaha!!
Fm and a pof account are in order (into the fa cup 5th round and just need to do jan transfer window final day) very few girls want to know about the fm, it's probably best I don't know them (yet)... Plenty of time to learn about pof, not enough to win the league as bishops stortford