Lady advice...

She sounds like an absolute diva.

1. Go no-contact with her, ignore her texts/calls. Eventually she should calm down and then will most likely apologize with the 'I was under stress' routine (or if she really believes you are screwing her, she may carry on with the "I am so ****** at you" routine)

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2. If you still wish to engage in a relationship with her, go out, keep busy, show her that you don't need her. If she wants to be with you, that's fine; she needs to be set some boundaries on respecting you etc. If doesn't want to be with you ("I don't even need you blah blah attention seeking"), that's her loss.

Take the high ground. Everyone can see that she is overreacting (most likely for attention/insecurity).

A practice I try to adhere to is leaving women better off than when you found them. She had the pleasure of being able to spend some quality time someone as awesome as yourself, but it has now come to the natural conclusion, so it is best to end it, before things go sour.

Onwards and upwards.

Blazin
 
Send her a nice simple text telling her not to contact you again unless she has stopped being a child...

And await the mushroom cloud as her head explodes.. :D

Women.. Treat em mean... Then bitchslap them some more! ;)
 
You might really like her mate, but trust me - if you are going travelling, the last thing you want is a moany whiny girl back at home ruining the experience for you.

Guarantee after a month of travelling you would have met and banged a lot of women, and you would have forgot about her!
 
[FnG]magnolia;24693530 said:
Wait - is she Asian*?
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She's Asian?

Wedding Crashers said:
John Beckwith: No overtime. Yeah, well what about the Chang wedding three years ago. 2am, you drag me fifty miles to watch you and some chick play Mah-Jongg with her grandmother? In a retirement home.
Jeremy Grey: Completely different situation. She was a very, very family-oriented girl. And very into her grandmother.
John Beckwith: Yeah.
Jeremy Grey: [Yells aloud] *That was my first Asian!*
[the entire room goes silent]
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agnes said:
Pretty much overall.

I told her not to contact me for a bit as I'm angry at the situation and I might say things I don't mean.

I'm going to text her tonight and cut it off. I got 5 months left, we both knew it was a romance that would end with me waving bye at the airport onto an epic adventure.
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A wise move.

It seems you know it's part of who she is & not just a one off (which would be worth being patient for).

Is she much younger than you?, (she sounds very immature & insecure) - I've been in relationships with women like that & they simply ruin every single social encounter with that kind of self-absorbed narcissism & insecurity/attention seeking.

On he plus side, it sounds like you have an epic trip to look forward to. :D
 
Advice from a girl... I know she would've been upset about the redundancy, but like others have said - alcohol amplifies people's personalities, and therefore she must be a psycho :p

If it's just a short-term thing, just get rid of her now before you get in deeper, things get complicated and she starts messing with your head. Try to make a 'clean break' though. Some girls get even more psychotic if you leave them with unanswered questions, e.g. she'll try to contact you in a few months time and get all weird if you ignore her, etc, etc.
 
Pestilence said:
Drop it like an ugly baby.

Over-emotional, distant and abusive when drunk does not a good partner make. She'll ruin every night out you try to have.
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agnes said:
I'm going to text her tonight and cut it off. I got 5 months left, we both knew it was a romance that would end with me waving bye at the airport onto an epic adventure.
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I'd certainly follow this bit. :D
 
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A girl that tries to put me down in front of other people is an instant turn off. I don't even want to share their company any longer. Most british girls are just bitches to the core and there is nothing that will ever change them. But if a girl was meant to be my g/f and she didn't treat me with respect in front of her friends or work colleagues. I would not accept that and i wouldn't just keep quiet either. I would have asked her in front of the group why she is being disrespectful and put her in her place. This is why i probably don't have a g/f ;) I just don't put up with psycho woman, not even for a second and as a result, remain single.

I used to live with a girl that used to try and put me down when in a group. I would refuse to stoop to her level and engage in petty insults. But you could see that she would feed off the encounter. It may have been a twisted immature way of her showing interest. But from my perspective it just made me hate her.
 
groen said:
A girl that tries to put me down in front of other people is an instant turn off. I don't even want to share their company any longer. Most british girls are just bitches to the core and there is nothing that will ever change them. But if a girl was meant to be my g/f and she didn't treat me with respect in front of her friends or work colleagues. I would not accept that and i wouldn't just keep quiet either. I would have asked her in front of the group why she is being disrespectful and put her in her place. This is why i probably don't have a g/f ;) I just don't put up with psycho woman, not even for a second and as a result, remain single.

I used to live with a girl that used to try and put me down when in a group. I would refuse to stoop to her level and engage in petty insults. But you could see that she would feed off the encounter. It may have been a twisted immature way of her showing interest. But from my perspective it just made me hate her.
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LOOOOL
 
First of all, everyone needs to understand this,

ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME KIND OF CRAZY, JUST DIFFERENT SHAPES!!!

Second of all, you say you are leaving the UK later this year to go traveling???

Well my suggestion is to kick this wench into touch and save every penny you would have spent treating her for your trip, making sure you call in to Prague and Thailand on the way to sooth your carnal needs!!!
 
elmarko said:
A wise move.

It seems you know it's part of who she is & not just a one off (which would be worth being patient for).

Is she much younger than you?, (she sounds very immature & insecure) - I've been in relationships with women like that & they simply ruin every single social encounter with that kind of self-absorbed narcissism & insecurity/attention seeking.

On he plus side, it sounds like you have an epic trip to look forward to. :D
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Yea, oh well. 5 months!

I just needed to rant more than anything this morning. But it's clear she is not worth my time.

She is like 2 years younger than me...

Groen... No word of a lie, she is like that. Always little remarks to have the 'upper hand' and attention in group situations. And when drunk, nightmare, I genuinely will avoid going out if I know she will be drinking or out in the group of people. Even worse, I have been invited to a leaving party of an old colleague this Friday, she will be there. Should be interesting. I just don't like public conflict and don't see the point in rising to it. Hate when ladies do that, try to create a scene just to get attention.

Grinds my gears haha.
 
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