It's not a good film to start with though, that's the problem. You change the world, make everything shiny, fine, stop ripping out random parts of the "other" world and jamming them down everyones throat.
I rewatched some of DS9 the other day, there was an ep where they go back in time into an original series ep, the doctor made ONE doctor joke (i'm a doctor not a..... ) and it landed. The new Star trek knows it was the doctors trademark so every single thing the doctor says is a trademark style rather than just doing these things once or twice a film. He says every line as if exasperated, in the middle of a battle, it's insanely over the top and the original doctor wasn't anything like it.
It's a 5-6/10 for the film alone, and 3-4/10 as a Star Trek film. You could EASILY on that budget, cast, different director make a solid "new" Star trek film that was actually a 8-9/10 and most people wouldn't mind that they changed the universe. It's the fact that they so massively overuse the crap they rip from the original that makes it bad. If they IGNORED the original stuff, the characters, and just wrote good original stuff it would be massively better. It's clinging to the doctors 2 types of lines, and every single conversation between Spock and Kirk being about his lack of human emotion, 2 conversations on the subject in the film is fine, 2 conversations about it in every scene is ridiculous.