The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Just calm down a bit narj, breathe. the first sign of a bit of skirt and your panting like a dog. She'll end up playing you if she finds out what you're being like.
 
Although this thread and some posters' experiences might suggest otherwise, not all women are lying, deceitful, money-grabbing scum who will cop off with your best mate for a packet of Scampi Fries and a Mars Bar.

She won't 'end up playing you' unless she is a terrible person. Does she seem like a terrible person?
 
window said:
Just calm down a bit narj, breathe. the first sign of a bit of skirt and your panting like a dog. She'll end up playing you if she finds out what you're being like.
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On the contrary, I'm normally not that bothered. She's a great person but I'll have to lay down some ground rules if it happens.Not giving up high risk sports etc ...

I'm single and the only generally happy person in my male social group right now.
 
Narj said:
On the contrary, I'm normally not that bothered. She's a great person but I'll have to lay down some ground rules if it happens.Not giving up high risk sports etc ...

I'm single and the only generally happy person in my male social group right now.
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Laying down ground rules when you're not even in a relationship yet, thats going to work out well!
 
[TW]Fox;26514014 said:
With attitudes like that is it any wonder the forums are full of tales of woe?
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You guys with sane girlfriends/wives need to realise that you're the exception. ;)
 
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[FnG]magnolia;26513893 said:
Although this thread and some posters' experiences might suggest otherwise, not all women are lying, deceitful, money-grabbing scum who will cop off with your best mate for a packet of Scampi Fries and a Mars Bar.
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I'd bang you for a packet of Scampi Fries anytime, Mags. :D
 
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So after 5 and half years, the now ex has moved out.

So here I am in suburban dream, 4 bed detached house, drive etc. Alone.

It's like an Army FIBUA training house, hardly any furniture, just big TV, my office stuff, two beds and an old sofa. :D

I guess that's all I need really. New flat/house hunting has commenced, I guess I'll save a bit of money as well as this house isn't cheap.
 
MilanoChris said:
So after 5 and half years, the now ex has moved out.

So here I am in suburban dream, 4 bed detached house, drive etc. Alone.

It's like an Army FIBUA training house, hardly any furniture, just big TV, my office stuff, two beds and an old sofa. :D

I guess that's all I need really. New flat/house hunting has commenced, I guess I'll save a bit of money as well as this house isn't cheap.
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Onwards and upwards mate - a new place will make things far better, when i moved out i luckily got hold of a studio flat which is perfect :)
 
Just working out whether to buy a flat for £120k or look at a house in the £150k region. Affordability is not an issue, but extra time to save for the increased deposit may be. Really need to find the Mortgages thread. :)
 
Life is really too short to have to worry about a relationship and I think as soon as that thought pops into your head you know what you should do.
 
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Alright people,

I posted previously about a girl I got involved with and have been seeing for a good 6 months now but we are just not labelled as in a relationship.

Yesterday she told me that she just doesn't know what she wants and that maybe we should just be friends, then said no she doesn't want that but still doesn't know what to do. I am currently in limbo right now and its doing my head in.

What should I do? Just ride it out and see how it goes? back off? Worst part is I really like this girl and would hurt to just let go of it all. To top it all off, I work with her.
 
In the immortal words of Donkey.

You love this woman, don't ya?
You wanna HOLD her?
PLEASE her?!
Then ya gotta, gotta try a little tenderness! Chicks LOVE that romantic crap!

:p

Be honest with her, if you actually want to be in a relationship with her tell her.
 
Xire said:
Alright people,

I posted previously about a girl I got involved with and have been seeing for a good 6 months now but we are just not labelled as in a relationship.

Yesterday she told me that she just doesn't know what she wants and that maybe we should just be friends, then said no she doesn't want that but still doesn't know what to do. I am currently in limbo right now and its doing my head in.

What should I do? Just ride it out and see how it goes? back off? Worst part is I really like this girl and would hurt to just let go of it all. To top it all off, I work with her.
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Has someone else got her attention?

As above, she could just be crying out for you to commit to her and tell her what you want.
 
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