Soldato
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- 24 Mar 2014
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Mischief, he sounds a bit like me. I did the test and got the same result, "INFP" :/
I quite often shut myself away, and need time alone, to ponder, and relax, and not have to struggle with external battles. I let my problems get on top of me, I am secretive, it takes a-lot to get me to talk about my feelings. I am often unwilling to solve my issues and I push them to the back of my mind, where they sit, and get worse and worse, until something goes wrong or it becomes too much.
In relation to a partner, I do still shut myself away from them sometimes, but if I trust them, I take comfort in knowing that they care, and that they are there for me. The thing which I rely on the most, particularly when I am stressed, anxious and depressed (as I am at the moment) is the care of my family, friends, and my girlfriend.
I can go for a while without texting or calling her sometimes, but other times I cannot, I don't understand it myself. Sometimes the thought of talking with her is scary and I want to be alone, and other times the thought of not talking to her fills me with anxiety and faux lonliness.
Often I stop talking to people for quite a while, and then I become concious that it has been a while, and I neglect to contact them after I have this realisation, because I am scared about how they feel about the long silence. Which makes little sense, as it just gets worse.
Do be wary of the fact that it is incredibly easy to falsify your emotions via text, just because he says "haha" doesn't mean he is laughing, and just because he puts a cheerful emoticon doesn't mean he is necessarily smiling. He could be putting on a happy face because he has realised that he is having a negative effect on you/is making you worry or stress about him.
There is way way WAY too much of me in this. I am starting to feel a little low now :s. glad though how im not alone
