The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

Fuzz · 17 Sep 2014 at 20:07

anticonscience said:
Get out at the weekend m8 and smash the first thing that bats her eyelids at you. Straight back on the horse. GG!

krooton · 17 Sep 2014 at 20:11

NVP said:
Hmmm Yeh maybe, I find it quite embarrassing now, everyone seems to be "well what did you expect?"

Don't be embarrassed, we're only human after all, and based on the strippers I have met, she was probably pretty fit, so it's understandable how infatuation could happen easily.

Fuzz · 17 Sep 2014 at 20:20

I know all about strippers

Mate at work went out with one for a while, she'd often "drop in" at work, drunk or high. Twice she had a fill of the nitrous bottle gas and then proceeded to strip off completely in the middle of the workshop while prancing around pouring packing prills over herself...... in front of customers. OMFG.

Fit as **** mind

krooton · 17 Sep 2014 at 20:27

Fuzz said:
I know all about strippers
Mate at work went out with one for a while, she'd often "drop in" at work, drunk or high. Twice she had a fill of the nitrous bottle gas and then proceeded to strip off completely in the middle of the workshop while prancing around pouring packing prills over herself...... in front of customers. OMFG.

Fit as **** mind

Vertical videos or it didn't happen!

NVP · 17 Sep 2014 at 20:34

krooton · 17 Sep 2014 at 20:48

NVP said:
Cheers Krooton Bang on, she's absolutely gorgeous, I don't usually do blondes or fake boobies but my god, perfection

Haha Fuzz that sounds nuts! I concur videos required Luckily no wild streak with her, champagne and that's it. Hates me smoking. Well, hated me smoking

SNAP OUT OF IT NVP!!!

Keep in mind that a defining skill of a stripper is to convince a guy that she is worth spending money on, and this skill is transferable to other aspects of life.

*brohug*

NVP · 17 Sep 2014 at 21:18

Buffman · 17 Sep 2014 at 23:43

Captain Planet said:
I've not had many girls not put out on the first date. Needless to say, they never resulted in a long term relationship. The girl I'm with made me wait a few weeks, would not put out where I met her on holiday and certainly earned my respect

The question is, what do you want? Special hugs in bed, or a relationship?

I don't think the time it takes to have special hugs is an indicator of how long your relationship will last.

Narj · 17 Sep 2014 at 23:45

The Craig said:
I don't think the time it takes to have special hugs is an indicator of how long your relationship will last.

The amount of respect you have for your partner probably has some bearing on it, though.

Buffman · 17 Sep 2014 at 23:52

Narj said:
The amount of respect you have for your partner probably has some bearing on it, though.

No, it only has a bearing on how much sexual desire you have.

It's not as if a women is "tainted" if she puts out on the 1st date lol (I think what a lot of guys like to think as they're insecure what if she's done it before omg)

Narj · 18 Sep 2014 at 00:21

The Craig said:
No, it only has a bearing on how much sexual desire you have.

It's not as if a women is "tainted" if she puts out on the 1st date lol (I think what a lot of guys like to think as they're insecure what if she's done it before omg)

IMO respect is built up through many different factors. Her saying, "let's go screw down the alley" on the first date would probably have quite a weighting on my opinion personally, although I'd worry more about whether she had the sense to be checked out than anything.

[FnG]magnolia · 18 Sep 2014 at 00:33

Subjectivity is a hell of a thing, I said, even though you're right and that other guy is wrong.

Tefal · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:05

Narj said:
The amount of respect you have for your partner probably has some bearing on it, though.

so should no woman respect you if you want to sleep with her on the first date?

Tefal · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:07

Nix said:
NVP, if a girl is prepared to strip for a living she is not normal.

i disagree i know some perfectly lovely girls who've been strippers.

Narj · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:07

Tefal said:
so should no woman respect you if you want to sleep with her on the first date?

All depends on the person doesn't it, really. If you're both happy, go for it.

Tefal said:
i disagree i know some perfectly lovely girls who've been strippers.

Old mate of mine was with an ex-pro for a long time. Didn't end well.

Tefal · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:08

Narj said:
All depends on the person doesn't it, really. If you're both happy, go for it.

well no, your saying you wouldn't respect her if she slept with you on the first date.

Im asking should she respect you if your willing to give it up on the first date.

or is it just women who should be judged on how quickly they're willing to have sex

Tefal · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:09

Narj said:
Old mate of mine was with an ex-pro for a long time. Didn't end well.

there's a big divide between stripping and hooking.

Narj · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:12

Tefal said:
well no, your saying you would respect her if she slept with you on the first date.

Im asking should she respect you if your willing to give it up on the first date.

or is it just women who should be judged on how quickly they're willing to have sex

I said that personally, I'd be a bit uncomfortable with it. But that's just me. We're not in the 1930s, of course not. You're still entitled to decide what floats your own boat, though..

jonney_joop · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:22

well i just got a call from my ex saying she is pregnant!

Said to see the doctor make sure its true and do some DNA test to see if its mine.

if it is. for sure i will take care of my own child. wont abandon the child ever.

I knew something was up when my ex kept sending me positive messages to me.

Tefal · 18 Sep 2014 at 01:22

jonney_joop said:
well i just got a call from my ex saying she is pregnant!

Said to see the doctor make sure its true and do some DNA test to see if its mine.

if it is. for sure i will take care of my own child. wont abandon the child ever.

I knew something was up when my ex kept sending me positive messages to me.

the A word an option?