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Only if they're wise to how it really goes down.

Doctor as your profession is instant tingles for many women.

Exactly.

Many men at my work can only get females attention if they tell them their job role and flash the badge. Without it they would be lost and wouldn't know what to do with themselves.
 
Ok pomeranians are literally babe magnets.

Jess left me holding Kiki while she poped into the ahop in euston station. In under 2 miniutes had 3 girls all sat on the floor playing with him lol.


Need to work out plays to pick up women while walking a dog now lol
 
The sad pitiful life of junior doctors. No wonder you lot go on strike! How on earth do you cope?

Never really supported junior doctors strike myself anyway.
If I was a doctor I'd never put it on an online dating profile. Fine if you want flings but if you want a relationship... Not so much!
 
Exactly.

Many men at my work can only get females attention if they tell them their job role and flash the badge. Without it they would be lost and wouldn't know what to do with themselves.

I'm assuming this is with how can I put it? less educated girls who are impressed by flashing a badge.

Never really supported junior doctors strike myself anyway.
If I was a doctor I'd never put it on an online dating profile. Fine if you want flings but if you want a relationship... Not so much!

Why? I am not even considering properly dating any girls that are not professionals with decent jobs. The girls that are dating me I assume have the same outlook.

I made a exception for my last GF because she had a law degree but had a unskilled job she loved. I think I would have probably settled down with her if she had a proper career. Shame she was really nice and exceptionally cute.
 
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[TW]Fox;30040265 said:
I always chuckle at some of the things you post but this has to take the biscuit :D

Why? Work is a big part of my life and I want a partner that has the same focus as me. Everyone looks for something different and that’s just my way. She was older and wanted to move things a bit faster but for me it really bothered me she was not interested in work.
 
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Had a good second date the other day, have found a day free to arrange a third and am thinking of calling to arrange it as opposed to just texting - this is a good idea right and not weird?

Obviously would have been better to ask in person, but I had to leave in a hurry in the end so i didn't miss my train :p
 
Thanks - that's kind of what I thought but wanted to make sure it wasn't too keen if anything.

Text saying you enjoyed the date and want to see them again, then when you get a favourable response text the day you have free. Make the final arrangements via a final text and don't contact them until you meet up again.

This way is better for numerous reasons.
 
I've been seeing this girl over the last few weeks (we've spent a couple of evenings together, and a few weekends), and we had a small "talk" and agreed that it was a girlfriend/boyfriend thing, which is great - she's awesome. I then went on holiday (due to head home tomorrow), and while I've been away she's been sent abroad for a month by work. In the last week or so (while I've been away but she's been home) we've been communicating less, and I'm getting more and more paranoid, which is ridiculous. I think I wish we'd been more clear on where we are, whether we're exclusive, etc.

Do you think, next time we speak, I should raise it? Or just let whatever will happen happen this month, assume we'll be meeting again on her return, and discuss it then? I don't want to sound like a paranoid idiot to her, but really don't want to lose her either!
 
I've been seeing this girl over the last few weeks (we've spent a couple of evenings together, and a few weekends), and we had a small "talk" and agreed that it was a girlfriend/boyfriend thing, which is great - she's awesome. I then went on holiday (due to head home tomorrow), and while I've been away she's been sent abroad for a month by work. In the last week or so (while I've been away but she's been home) we've been communicating less, and I'm getting more and more paranoid, which is ridiculous. I think I wish we'd been more clear on where we are, whether we're exclusive, etc.

Do you think, next time we speak, I should raise it? Or just let whatever will happen happen this month, assume we'll be meeting again on her return, and discuss it then? I don't want to sound like a paranoid idiot to her, but really don't want to lose her either!

Paranoid about what? You declared yourself boyfriend / girlfriend, carry on as you are already. Then when she gets back, bang the hell out of it :D
 
Paranoid about what? You declared yourself boyfriend / girlfriend, carry on as you are already. Then when she gets back, bang the hell out of it :D

Exactly! Pretty sure I'm just being a moron, and when I'm back at work next week I'll be equally as busy as her and unable to speak to her much either. I'm just terrible at letting things lie.
 
It's new. It makes sense you're a little paranoid/feeling more vulnerable than usual, but you're almost certainly overthinking it. People get busy sometimes and can't help it.
I've been in a similar situation recently, but I've been reminded that I'm just overthinking it all.
 
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