The OcUK Relationship Counselling and Hugs Thread

XeNoN89 · 3 Apr 2018 at 23:17

CREATIVE!11 said:
Love most of time is just people being clingy, it's a made up word romanticised by films.

Yeh im pretty sure a lot of people expect it to be like in movies or TV, and it just isn't

Guest2 · 3 Apr 2018 at 23:40

XeNoN89 said:
Yeh im pretty sure a lot of people expect it to be like in movies or TV, and it just isn't

I disagree, it's the most powerful feeling I have experienced and I've had quite a few powerful experiences

Tefal · 4 Apr 2018 at 01:18

mrbell1984 said:
I personally think love is “When you are there to help someone and you would do nearly anything to help them with something they need within reason and it makes them smile and be happy”

So friendship?

itchy · 4 Apr 2018 at 02:20

I have a protean personality so most people find it hard to deal with me.

A2Z · 4 Apr 2018 at 03:12

I've recently fallen in love for the 3rd time in my life and its the best feeling of them all so far. Hoping it lasts for a long time.

Schizo · 4 Apr 2018 at 03:36

I've met a women who I have only met once and she is so jealous already,she thinks I'm amazing and I have awoken her senses to love ect.
She is driving me crazy at the moment,she dosent doesn't want me to spend time with the ex (me and ex have a good relationship) and thinks I should spend it with her.
How can a women be so clingy after one date !

XeNoN89 · 4 Apr 2018 at 08:21

Schizo said:
I've met a women who I have only met once and she is so jealous already,she thinks I'm amazing and I have awoken her senses to love ect.
She is driving me crazy at the moment,she dosent doesn't want me to spend time with the ex (me and ex have a good relationship) and thinks I should spend it with her.
How can a women be so clingy after one date !

run. now

Schizo · 4 Apr 2018 at 08:25

Just what i was thinking.

Dunks · 4 Apr 2018 at 08:26

Schizo said:
I've met a women who I have only met once and she is so jealous already,she thinks I'm amazing and I have awoken her senses to love ect.
She is driving me crazy at the moment,she dosent doesn't want me to spend time with the ex (me and ex have a good relationship) and thinks I should spend it with her.
How can a women be so clingy after one date !

Hills, run, now. :eek:

Schizo · 4 Apr 2018 at 08:32

She is nice and all but she scares me,i can just imagine the 3rd date.....marriage !!!!!

Hades · 4 Apr 2018 at 08:43

XeNoN89 said:
run. now

Dunks said:
Hills, run, now.

...and don't look back!

Hades · 4 Apr 2018 at 08:44

A2Z said:
I've recently fallen in love for the 3rd time in my life and its the best feeling of them all so far. Hoping it lasts for a long time.

Nice. Good luck. Hope it goes well

Schizo · 4 Apr 2018 at 08:59

Hades said:
...and don't look back!

One of the good points is she is 1.5 hours away from me which is handy,if he lived near me it could be worse

Daftbrown · 4 Apr 2018 at 09:16

Schizo said:
I've met a women who I have only met once and she is so jealous already,she thinks I'm amazing and I have awoken her senses to love ect.
She is driving me crazy at the moment,she dosent doesn't want me to spend time with the ex (me and ex have a good relationship) and thinks I should spend it with her.
How can a women be so clingy after one date !

Nope.

It'll just get worse.

Hades · 4 Apr 2018 at 09:21

Schizo said:
One of the good points is she is 1.5 hours away from me which is handy,if he lived near me it could be worse

If you do continue the relationship (to be fair give it a chance) then be prepared to stand your ground very firmly when it comes to seeing friends of either gender. Don't be tempted to accommodate her clingyness because the relationship is new. Set boundaries at the start and continue with them. Once you give ground it gets harder to claw that ground back and before you know it you've been isolated from spending time with friends and family. I learned that the hard way.

BongoHunter · 4 Apr 2018 at 12:29

Schizo said:
One of the good points is she is 1.5 hours away from me which is handy,if he lived near me it could be worse

That's not a large enough distance to stop a crazy

Steampunk · 4 Apr 2018 at 12:42

BongoHunter said:
That's not a large enough distance to stop a crazy

Yeah, just an excuse to "stay over night", and before you know it she's moving in because it's easier than her being ninety minutes away.

nst68 · 4 Apr 2018 at 13:48

Schizo said:
I've met a women who I have only met once and she is so jealous already,she thinks I'm amazing and I have awoken her senses to love ect.
She is driving me crazy at the moment,she dosent doesn't want me to spend time with the ex (me and ex have a good relationship) and thinks I should spend it with her.
How can a women be so clingy after one date !

WantoN · 4 Apr 2018 at 14:51

wedrum said:
Have you lost a porn DVD?

Absolutely brilliant, nice cross-reference

413x · 5 Apr 2018 at 11:51

Remember this is probably best behaviour.

Too many better options than this person out there. Id just simply move on. Not worth the hassle later which will invariably come