Whilst it may be in part because i am not used to gaming over 60fps, i too would take 60fps and 4k over 1080p at 144fps.
I am no avid PvPer though so that is another thing too. To me 60fps is perfectly smooth... that said i do not know how players put up with the for instance 20-30fps in say, dead rising 3 that the standard xbox 1 offers, to me that IS unplayable so i guess to each their own.
I do remember playing Geoff Crammond's F1GP on an amiga 500 at 8fps if memory serves, and wing commander was just as bad so again, horses for courses.
VR however i am the opposite, framerate IS king for me in VR