conflating somewhat different scenarios though aren't we....
Never claimed they didn't - doesn't make it true though.
No they aren't and no it doesn't really work like that - the US acted in response to aggression from Iran... Iran, if they've got a death wish, can of course attempt to respond to that but they'd be pretty dumb to do so.
Its not conflating two different things though is it. Your claim is that Iran is arming proxies and attacking US soldiers. The opposite side is that the US is arming proxies that are attacking Iranian soldiers.
And as said, yes I agree, the US acted in response to aggression from Iran. Yet you consistently fail to admit that Iran acted in response to aggression from the US.
If you refuse to grasp even that simple fact then there’s no hope in continuing this conversation.
Unfortunately it looks like the **** really may have hit the fan now. Let’s hope that Europe and Canada don’t get dragged into a potentially steaming mess that Trump has made.