How is willingly accepting violent subjugation and the likely pogroms that will occur as a result with anyone holding Ukrainian statehood sympathies what's 'best' for Ukraine?
This is a clash between east and west.
Ukraine isn't going to win the fight. Because Russia can't afford to lose.
Step 1: Ignore all the big picture facts
Step 2: Go into a rabbit hole of Russian propaganda
Step 3: Form opinion that surrender is the answer
The big fact picture is that the Ukrainian people are being killed every day and it's not going to stop.
What is your solution? Fight until the last Ukrainian is dead?
I suggest you both watch the video I posted.