Am I being unreasonable/petty/a dick if a small part of me just wants to ride it at a pace I want to do, and have put in the hours training towards, or should I be more sympathetic and ride at a similar pace? I usually say on rides that if we leave together then we also arrive together.... But I also just want to get my own back lol.
Oh he's let himself into whatever you wanna throw at him really hasn't he! Really it's your ride, so ride it how you want. If testing yourself is what you want out of it then ride it solo. If you want to experience group riding then settle in with him and try to get off early so when a small group only slightly quicker catches you ask if you can jump in with them. It's his call then if he does the same. If you're after building that friendship and 'coaching' him back into the rider he was so you'll have someone to ride other stuff with them really be flexible. You can ride some parts (climbs) hard and regoup at feed stops/junctions. Even more - ride the climbs hard, regroup at the tops, let him do the descents, then pull him on the flat/rolling. Pacing it to get you both around together, with enough parts for you to test yourself but with the social element of riding more with him than solo. I looked back at a mini sportive I did last year, saw my 'on the road' time as 7 hours, while my actual 'moving time' on Strava was only 5. It was a glorious day, started with a guy I knew and some of his club (very slow), clubmate I thought wasn't coming caught us up, rode the rest of it with him mostly towing him and testing myself on the hills. 3/4 the way around caught another clubmate riding with a couple of his friends so rode then end part 2 of us doing pulls back towing the others.
Good fun even with all the waiting around!
At the end of the day - it's a Sportive, there will be a lot of other riders there, so whatever you do you'll come across other riders. Group up if you want to, chat and make some friends, usually everyone is there to enjoy the ride for very much the same reasons - a good day out!
Do the first few miles with him, and then at the first hill, ride him off your wheel to teach him a lesson. When you see at the end, just say you lost him by accident. That's what cycling is about
This! Pretty much what I do all the time anyway... Ride everyone off my wheel, anyone able to stick with me have some fun with. Regroup and then be so buzzing about it chat so much nobody gets any recovery. Then do the same again up the next hill!
Anyone know how much a bike shop would likely charge to fit new hydraulic hoses/gear cables?
My LBS last quoted me (early 2024) £65 for a set of hydraulic hoses (Shimano) and then £90 workshop time to fit - includes all parts and stripping the original.
I never got around to it, but after fiddling with hoses on my new build - fitting new bars (actually cut hoses and bodged new ends without the hose vice holders and it worked fine). I'll do it myself at some point this summer (buying the proper tools). Need to change the bars & a caliper on it anyway. But you know me - fairly practical and tend to prefer to buy the tools to figure things out.
Rubbish about the toe (s?), but at least now you know!
Tried to do some trueing of rear, wheel nipples I tried were frozen onto spokes so spoke started to torque - tried adding plus gas to free them to no effect yet, couldn't get enough grip on the spokes with pliers, as another
approach;
then snapped head off a rear-hanger wheel adjustment bolt, corrosion in threads, applied a blow-torch and manged to extract it from other side, and reversed it until I get replacement (or some M3 bolts it seems)
Eeeek! Yeah depending on the spokes
you can get tools to stop them twisting as you balance. But really if you're at that point might be best to buy a bundle of spare/new spokes anyway. But if it where me - I'd pay the LBS to solve, let them have the hassle factor.
Well done getting the bolt out! That's the hardest part, bolt itself should be easy. If you're struggling than should be easy to find spares especially Shimano much of it is universal across different series.
Is it fairly straight forward swapping a chain set?
Quite tempted to switch from 52/36 to 50/34 because I find myself looking for an extra gear when I’m in 36/30 and I doubt I’d miss 52/11 all that much either.
the painful reality is I’m just not strong enough for my gearing lol
Depends on the cranksets you're talking about. Modern Shimano very easy with only a Torx required (T25 I think?) as the bolts screw directly into the spider.
Just mentioning in case you where also using as an excuse to switch to 12s di2 (trollololol) I've got 2 brand new Shimano 7100 cranksets. 50/34 & 172.5 length from new builds I swapped to Ultegra 170's on my Tarmac's... Have been meaning to list them on ebay as listing on all the local buy/sell groups only getting stupid offers.
But also don't underestimate going for a 32 or 34 on the rear cassette if you can. I've nearly always ridden 11-32. The time I went for a 30t I missed that lower gear, now I'm riding 34t & I love it!