That's partly why I'm pointing out these things from time to time, so that the reading of 20 odd threads of lots of folks laughing that it's plenty will literraly base a second hand purchase because of the wrong impression of how vram will play out over time.
(it just happened to be you that got quoted, I know you'll no take the nip as @Nexus18 would just go on and on anyway)
There is no doubt that vram will become/is a problem depending on scenarios/settings but as pointed out, grunt and vram go hand in hand, a gpu might lack the required vram but it will more than likely also lack the grunt to get fps that certain people would want in the first place i.e. take FC 6, know for a fact certain people here will be wanting 90/100+ fps in this regardless so they will be having to turn down the settings even though they have the vram there and when they turn off/down some of those settings, the vram becomes a non issue then (well unless you're one of the many people who are having texture, stuttering, fps issues regardless of settings.... but I digress )