thanks for the advice, going to rehome her.
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Kicking the Mrs out is a bit harsh but do whatever you feel is right, bro.![]()
She's in the kitchen now, curled up on a chair.
How did cats survive so long before humans took them in and domesticated them???
Why would the cat be "terrified" out side?
Do have children? Do you treat them the same?
How did cats survive so long before humans took them in and domesticated them???
Put a 10 year old child (who will be smarter and more understanding than a cat) outside in a fur coat and see how it feels... .
After reading all the answers I can see that there are 2 groups of people here animal people and non animal people.
You're being cruel, not least because of previous expectations (ie it's not like it's been a semi-feral farm cat since birth).
I don't know why you're completely ignoring the urination issues. A house move, newborn or any change can be incredibly stressful for a cat. It's not like you can explain things to it.
Have you even tried feliway or anything?
Regardless now, if your wife doesn't care or love it then try and rehome it.
... think animals are disposable.
... the cat's stress
The cat isn't stressed , seems very happy.