Indeed they are. The difference is that the Caterhams, Marussias and HRTs get out of the way of everybody, but the Toro Rossos only get out of the way of Red Bulls. If you don't see why this is a problem, and why it is bad for the sport, then I don't know what to say.
Indeed, I remember the fuss when the Sauber's used to move out the way for MS but hold JV as long as possible
I remember the Torro Rosso jumping out the way for Webber at Abu Dhabi in 2010 yet Alonso had to work for it.