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I feel as though i'm the only one in my house - 5 guys including myself - to be worried about a housemate's behaviour when drunk.
Last night was a textbook example...he got very drunk, it mixes with his antidepressants and he goes all crazy. He was actually scaring one of the girls in an after party in Halls as he was sitting cross legged and sort of, rocking backwards and forwards, face full of animation and acting erractic. Ie, body movements spasm and things like that. It took us 40 minutes to get down a 15 minute road home and he promptly smashed a few glasses. A few nights before he smashed a lightbulb, took a mate's bed stuff outside the house and threw a housemate's chair down the stairs.
Don't get me wrong...sometimes its funny to see and "people do silly things when they are drunk" but surely there is a line? He is an intelligent guy when sober but he is 32. He has never had a job, lives with his parents who do everything for him and can't seem to look after himself. He lacks motivation to get up and sometimes he wakes up at 9pm and stays awake for 24 hours, other times he doesn't emerge for a couple of days. It's just very erractic. He IS a good mate when he wants to be and we do just go along with how he is because sometimes the benefits can outweigh the cons.
Anyway, just looking for other opinions hopefully showing i'm not being "boring" by worrying and stuff. My housemates are quite submissive and seem to take it in their stride but then again, i live with quite a mixture of guys. We all love to go out, get wrecked and whatever. But sometimes there is a line surely?
Can answer any questions etc.
Last night was a textbook example...he got very drunk, it mixes with his antidepressants and he goes all crazy. He was actually scaring one of the girls in an after party in Halls as he was sitting cross legged and sort of, rocking backwards and forwards, face full of animation and acting erractic. Ie, body movements spasm and things like that. It took us 40 minutes to get down a 15 minute road home and he promptly smashed a few glasses. A few nights before he smashed a lightbulb, took a mate's bed stuff outside the house and threw a housemate's chair down the stairs.
Don't get me wrong...sometimes its funny to see and "people do silly things when they are drunk" but surely there is a line? He is an intelligent guy when sober but he is 32. He has never had a job, lives with his parents who do everything for him and can't seem to look after himself. He lacks motivation to get up and sometimes he wakes up at 9pm and stays awake for 24 hours, other times he doesn't emerge for a couple of days. It's just very erractic. He IS a good mate when he wants to be and we do just go along with how he is because sometimes the benefits can outweigh the cons.
Anyway, just looking for other opinions hopefully showing i'm not being "boring" by worrying and stuff. My housemates are quite submissive and seem to take it in their stride but then again, i live with quite a mixture of guys. We all love to go out, get wrecked and whatever. But sometimes there is a line surely?
Can answer any questions etc.