Another sad & depressed thread

SideWinder · 10 Apr 2006 at 02:51

Zefan said:
What if she pulls the sex card? I have big trouble making a stand with women when they have such pulling power. Just make sure she doesn't trick ya, seriously they have a habit.

He's 15, assuming she is to. :confused:

naffa: Merely say you care but you've noticed changes, offer to talk about them, make things better maybe, if not, sure, leave it. Confront her sure, just be sensitive which i'm sure you will be.

Jonny ///M · 10 Apr 2006 at 03:30

SideWinder said:
He's 15, assuming she is to.

naffa: Merely say you care but you've noticed changes, offer to talk about them, make things better maybe, if not, sure, leave it. Confront her sure, just be sensitive which i'm sure you will be.

Just tell her that how the hell can you give her attention when shes cooped up with jake.Its a two way thing a relationship and she needs to be told. If she denies it or gets bitchy tell her to STFU you dont have time for an immature inbread such as herself.

I know how your feeling as my 1 year relationship ended at the end of january or something.We ended up never seeing each other cause she was working and i had school and worked at the weekend,i mean i ended up not trusting her(she could talk to a big gay male friend but not to her partner

) so it went downhill from there.....i said lets meet up and have "the talk" but no.....she does it on msn like an immature ****-up!!!! I mean that was a sort of mutual end and i still ****** have a hatred and get ****** off when she mentions some guys but i dont think shes that type.

First thing to do is confront her about jake(is that even his name lol? i forget stuff) and if you think its worth saving it then do it,just dont get taken for a mug and forget that sex nonsense. Wait for some proper bird and your a bit older.You will only regret it.

Sorry if i dont even help but i try....but its late

Oh and to the guy above,it seems to be a competition nowdays who can get "there" first! Sad when you hear some 3rd year KID at school talking about it. They just deserve a good slap back to reality.

Watch your language.

Otacon

Sic · 10 Apr 2006 at 08:28

VIRII said:
LOL, yup i'll be grateful for any advice a teenager can give me on chatting up women as being married and with the same lady for 14/15 years I have lost touch.
When fatty and I were lads on the pull the usual method was to club a bird around the head and drag her back to the cave (hence the term ladykillers), is this still how it is done or do men now have to pretend to actually care about the female and make all sorts of "oh I am so vulnerable" kind of emo smalltalk?

HA! i'm not a teenager so nyah!

but i was hoping you'd appreciate the irony.

you can still club people about the head and drag them back to your flat, but trying to convince the law that it was a mutual arrangement is easier said than done, unfortunately. the "oh i am so vulnerable" thing works on some girls, but they're usually a bit too high maintenance

i just walk into a crowded area, take my trousers off and hope for the best. normally get something

Roberta · 10 Apr 2006 at 08:33

Sic said:
i just walk into a crowded area, take my trousers off and hope for the best. normally get something

Arrested?

fatiain · 10 Apr 2006 at 08:36

Roberta said:
Arrested?

Nah, the place to himself.

roughlad · 10 Apr 2006 at 10:23

All you have to do is follow my five easy steps and ul be laughing my son:
1. Meet with said women
2. Get all cuddley n so on
3. Ask her what the crack is. If she still dont tell you
4. Slap her in the face with ** mini naffa
5. Go get someone nicer

Doctor Roughlove will now leave the building

iSam · 10 Apr 2006 at 10:52

naffa said:
Basically.. I think I've decided I dont want to be with her anymore.. but just the thought of seeing her with someone else makes me feel ill.. When I'm not around I'm certain I dont want to be with her but when I'm around her my feelings change. Pretty typical for a teenager though i guess? in short Naffa = atm..

Bridgwater, well Goathurst to be precise.

Im near Wells!

Spacky · 10 Apr 2006 at 11:13

iCraig said:
High five her forehead with a spade, and move on.

Made me chuckle

Naffa · 10 Apr 2006 at 14:04

Looks like I'l be meeting with her at some point then.. but only when I can be bothered.. me and Benjo have PCs to mod to keep us occupied.

Isotope said:
Im near Wells!

What are the chances?

Ooohh I used to sing in Wells Cathedral when I was in Primary school :cool:

Matt-Page · 10 Apr 2006 at 20:21

naffa said:
Looks like I'l be meeting with her at some point then.. but only when I can be bothered.. me and Benjo have PCs to mod to keep us occupied.

What are the chances? Ooohh I used to sing in Wells Cathedral when I was in Primary school

I'm a stone throw from you mate, although Bridgy explains a lot... Hows about i take you for a pint and drop you off at her house. It all comes out much better and honest after a drink or two

Naffa · 10 Apr 2006 at 20:26

Where abouts are you then? :cool:

rayer · 10 Apr 2006 at 20:27

iCraig said:
High five her forehead with a spade, and move on.

She just sounds like a typical whiney brat who craves attention. Cut your losses and find a nice girl who suits you better.

I think this would be an irresponsible things to do and promotes violence, therefore i think THIS thread should be closed for all the politically corrected people on this site :mad:

Roberta · 10 Apr 2006 at 20:50

rayer said:
for all the politically corrected people on this site

It's been ages since I've had a good political correction.

Cor.

Wossi · 10 Apr 2006 at 22:10

pfft try being me. I split with my ex June of last year and found out she had cheated on me. While sitting at the pc tonight one of my sisters tells me it's probably best I stay here as she met my ex and has brought her round :eek:

Cue me grabbing my money, jumper and jacket and legging it to my mates then the pub to get away. Not funny in the slightest.

Naffa · 10 Apr 2006 at 22:43

R0551 said:
pfft try being me. I split with my ex June of last year and found out she had cheated on me. While sitting at the pc tonight one of my sisters tells me it's probably best I stay here as she met my ex and has brought her round

Cue me grabbing my money, jumper and jacket and legging it to my mates then the pub to get away. Not funny in the slightest.

Jeez and I thought I was feeling bad

. Thats not right tbh.

Wossi · 10 Apr 2006 at 23:22

not really but i am drunk now so that's one plus point

Naffa · 11 Apr 2006 at 15:28

Last night Grace started speaking to me and i couldnt be arsed to talk to her so i said "Il be back in a bit, i got some stuff to do" (play MTA). She said "OK". So I played for a while and ended up coming off after a few hours (damn you benjo spunj n zacko!

) and found that she'd said "Just to let you know, Jakey is sleeping round tomorrow night. Just thought i'd tell you so you dont think im lying

"

On saturday night they both denied this was happening.. I knew it was because Jake had told his mum this but they both still denied it. Until last night when she told me he was staying round.

Well I phoned up Grace earlier and we had a chat..

I asked her if there was anything going on between her and Jake and she said there wasnt. But a bit more long winded than that. Then she said I was being unreasonable seeing as I never spend any time with her and I'm always with Benjo and his gf Frankie whom I used to want to go out with. But Grace and some other people can't seem to accept the fact that I dont want to anymore.. She was going on about how selfish I was being as shes been trying to ignore her massive jealousy she has had over me spending too much time with other friends, some of which being girls, and not her and when she starts being friends with someone and spending time with them I immediatly think somethings going on. I don't want to go out with Benjo's gf.. I want to make that clear and I know she doesnt want to go out with me as shes with Benjo.. But I know Jake wants to go out with Grace (and he has a girlfriend

) and I'm unsure if Grace wants to go out with him.. But have I ever lied about having someone that wants to go out with me and I maybe want to go out with them, coming to stay at my house.. No I havnt.

I said that I would try and spend more time with her but I can't spend all my time with her as it's just not the way I work. I need friends.. but I don't need a girlfriend. But if I'm going out with her then I supose I should try and take some notice.. But I think all this can just come down to the fact that I'm not a very good boyfriend and don't understand the needs of a girl..

I dont know what to do

_PD_ · 11 Apr 2006 at 15:50

naffa said:
I dont know what to do

Dude, you've been told, go get that spade!

Seriously, don't let her mess you about. If you don't like what's going on, tell her. Don't stand for it. High five that forehead and dump her, NOW!!!

You need to be yourself and have time to yourself, and if she won't let you do that, she isn't the one for you! If you aren't happy, it isn't worth the trouble.

Yewen · 11 Apr 2006 at 16:07

You aint dumped her yet?

She has told you she will be having some other guy around, ask her not to, if she says no perfect time to dump her.

Datamonkey · 11 Apr 2006 at 16:09

Pork n walk my friend,

pork n walk.

I would end it asap fella, mess with her feelings for a bit see how she likes it and then go find somone else.