My partner pointed out to me that she misses playing games on the TV with me due to my moping around and avoiding it because the video card in the PC isn't good enough. More worryingly she's noticed that my mood was down since very early this year due to the PC build, which I'd spent a while planning and looking forward to with excitement, wasn't happening.
So, with some reluctant admission of both these facts, I nabbed a Sapphire 6900XT MBA. It was a lot of money, £1500 all in, but now we're going to enjoy a bunch of games together in the way I had originally planned us to, back in October 2020.
I guess I'm a hypocrite now? I don't know. It feels like the right decision though. My build's compete at least.