well the dhl guy has been and collected the parcel, I booked the collection through parcel2go last night for collection today. now to hope there are no issues in the transit and that asrock do indeed send me a replacement(and that the replacement doesn't have any bent/missing pins).
am now £40 or so lighter as it cost ~£27(£18 + £9 for the extra insurance to cover £200) + the £15 that asrock wanted to cover the return postage.
giving into temptation and buying the board on the pre-order price(£210) and really cost me more money and hassle then it's wort, all this shipping costs + testing cost from ocuk is going to end up meaning I pay ~£290 for which I could have bought the asus maximus iv extreme-z or the gigabyte g1 snipper 2.