I guess we'll have to agree to disagree.
I can't understand how its anybodies fault but the individual for there own actions.
Like i pointed out before. If i told you your partner was cheating with the neighbour and you kill the neighbour, how is his death my responsibility?
Perhaps a better analogy would be you know who told the police about the activities of a gangster which got him sent down for life. You tell the gangsters brother who it was. He is then murdered.