Balddog said:
Why dont you label yourself? Are you above labels?
In my experience, lots of real emos do cut themselves...and the fakes, of whom there are MANY, claim they do....
and the whole weeping in the dark thing.
Above labels?
I just personally don't label myself. I don't want a name to myself. I have a fringe haircut because i wanted a new hairstyle and so to some i am considered an emo. I like the 'typical' emo bands. My clothes range from Firetrap t-***** to Soviet jeans, not pipeliner jeans.
Agree about the number of fakes around and with new genres of 'emo' becoming popular, you get a variety of emos. For example, the current most popular band in this new wave of scene emo is Fall Out Boy, making way for other bands such as Panic! At The Disco and The Academy Is.... You then have bands such as UnderOath and Still Remains, screamo. Another 'section' of the emo music style are bands such as My Chemical Romance, basically the first in this new sound. A slower beat than screamo but not as softcore as Fall Out Boy. Many people have seen the images of Aiden and AFI as they have been posted in General Discussion before, these sort of bands can be labelled as goth punk - you may need to listen to each of the bands listed to understand the difference.
VIRII said:
Where was that generalisation made? Or is it a common assumption about Emos? Either way, if I was a teenager again, I still wouldn't care less what people assumed about me. I'll never really understand why you would let it bother you.
I personally don't believe that all emos generate the body language and image "pick on me, punch me and hurt me, I am pathetic". I don't deny it isn't a trend. The majority of emos have the sweeping fringe and tight clothes yes, that is true but i disagree that they all generate the same body language and image. Sure some emos may be like the ones in stereotypical images like the thread starter's poster but others are not. They laugh and have no cuts on their arms or whatever.
VIRII said:
Ok I am slowly coming to realise that I don't know very much about Emos at all. I thought they were just wimpy kids who lacked self confidence on the whole.
What is this "cutting themselves" and "weeping in the dark" stuff all about? Do girls really go for that kind of lad? I would have thought that such behaviour would turn the majority of girls right off.
"Oh my boyfriend is so introspective and morose".
"Wow you're so lucky to have such a miserable boyfriend".
"I know, sometimes I could just kill myself with joy".
Kids - you are only young for a really short time, have fun, laugh, joke, smile and don't waste it being pointless. If you think being a teen is difficult then you're going to hate having responsibilities to more than your peer group and wardrobe.
You thought they were just wimpy kids who lacked self confidence on the whole? This is what i dislike, people judging on that kind of scale.
As for the cutting and all of that, most of it is myth and made up to go along with the stereotyping. "They dye their hair black, listen to angry music, i bet they cut themselves!".