Thanks for all the tips guys. I have transferred the money out of PayPal as, being a student I kind of really needed it, which is why this is so annoying.
I will inform him that the pins should be at an angle, although he does say this is like his third gaming rig he has built, but it does sound odd, he said "but i mean 1156 pins are bent downwards and some look like a dogs chewd on them", which does support the fact he says 'ALL' pins, so he might not know they should be at an angle, but then he goes on to say it is so bad it is like something chewed on them, which is impossible as I have no pets and I certainly didn't decide to have a munch on it.
I will tell him I am not doing a thing without picture evidence sent, and I think I will contact eBay and give them a heads up.