Broke up with bf
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you will find one eventually! 
BrightonBelle said:Can also bore you with my bloke problems... unfortunately the crying is inevitable, one of those things you get out of your system and if you are more sad than happy in a relationship then you have to make the right decision and it sounds like you have (keep quiet Pebs)
BB x
*chokes....splutters......nearly has an aneurism!*
BB!!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
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sr4470 said:
tbh, gf left me, no real reason (too much pressure for her with college and all aparently, but seems worse this year) shes done nothing but take advantage of me, only wants me around when it suits her, taken all our friends (turns out they where hers after all) and been a bit of a **** to me tbh.
and I still love her.
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He text me last night saying he knows how much he hurt me and thats why he also thinks its best to split. though he said he wants to still be friends
as i said earlier i will stay friends for the meantime but i did tell him nothing else will come of it and he has to be more polite to me
i think for both of us at least if it ends on a better note than it will be easier to get over each other. rather than cutting all contact straight away as i think thats when im then most likely to miss his company and end up being stupid.
i think in general he is close to his mum because of his purthase (sp?) as a child. he was in and out of hospital for 2 years.
i think also his mum nags him to stay in contact so he has got into this routine of constantly speaking to her.
i have told him though that unless he cuts the apron strings he will never be able to move out and have a life with someone else.
as i said earlier i will stay friends for the meantime but i did tell him nothing else will come of it and he has to be more polite to me
i think for both of us at least if it ends on a better note than it will be easier to get over each other. rather than cutting all contact straight away as i think thats when im then most likely to miss his company and end up being stupid.
i think in general he is close to his mum because of his purthase (sp?) as a child. he was in and out of hospital for 2 years.
i think also his mum nags him to stay in contact so he has got into this routine of constantly speaking to her.
i have told him though that unless he cuts the apron strings he will never be able to move out and have a life with someone else.
i dont really think u should contact him at all.he hurt you,his behaviour was very weird.
how can u be sure that u are first person who suffered like that thanks to him?
maybe he treats like that all girls he wants to be with,afterwards tries to make friends with them - he uses girls,treats them like toys,is very inmature, not ready for normal relationship.
he takes what he wants when he wants and thats enough.can manipulate girls quite easily i suppose.
if he cheated once and prooved already he can repeat it he aint even worse your time,just get over,he aint boy for u
he just needs fb , doesnt deserve more for now...
how can u be sure that u are first person who suffered like that thanks to him?
maybe he treats like that all girls he wants to be with,afterwards tries to make friends with them - he uses girls,treats them like toys,is very inmature, not ready for normal relationship.
he takes what he wants when he wants and thats enough.can manipulate girls quite easily i suppose.
if he cheated once and prooved already he can repeat it he aint even worse your time,just get over,he aint boy for u
he just needs fb , doesnt deserve more for now...
Innesita said:
well for the time being i need to be civil with him because im tied financially to him regarding rent for the flat and items in the flat
if i start ignoring him etc it will just make the situation worse. at least when things are cancelled I can walk away but right now im not taking the risk of him leaving me with debts
i really dont care if what he is saying is true or not. im not going running back to him. im just speaking to him about money and thats it. not texting him for anything else. im moving on
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it doesnt really mean u need make friends with him,just keep in touch but be really cold,just dont care anymore.
i understand flat and stuff but wouldnt like you to be close to him again,wish u good luck,dont want u to think like...hmmm maybe i should be with him again,he seems to be nice,etc etc - which will be the thing u probably would like to see in him once again
i understand flat and stuff but wouldnt like you to be close to him again,wish u good luck,dont want u to think like...hmmm maybe i should be with him again,he seems to be nice,etc etc - which will be the thing u probably would like to see in him once again
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