Broke up with bf

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secretspy said:
"WHY SECOND CLASS? WHY IS IT CHEEKY? WHATEVER !"
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Sounds like somebody I know!

I can't stand people like that - people who blatantly have absolutely zero concept of real life. I'm glad you got shot of him, he sounds like a right **** (rhymes with 'Mick').
 
secretspy said:
are there any blokes out there who dont want to hurt me????
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Don't worry. Most men are NOT like that.

Are you the sort of woman who consciously or unconsciously goes for a "type" of man?

I know a few women who admit to liking the "bad boy" type and usually get exactly that. A nasty piece of work. :(
 
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surrey
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If you're going to a meet when I am, I'm in mid-sussex and could possibly provide transport too. Folks here will attest that I'm not a scary egotistical megalomaniac. I leave all that stuff to Gilly :p:D
 
Some really good advice given above.

Work on your self esteem so that people can't walk over you; take charge, don't be reliant on someone else, you make the decisions.

Go to a meet ..... a lot of friendship being offered here by complete strangers ....... accept gracefully and have a good time making new friends. :)

Don't go out of your way looking for someone else too soon, have some time to yourself or with friends.

Above all, once you've sorted your property out, don't speak to the bully again, no matter what excuse he comes up with; physical abuse should NOT be tolerated EVER.

Best wishes, (always look on the bright side of life, de dum, de dum de dum de dum ...) ;)
 
secretspy said:
i know everyone hates relationship threads but I guess I just need to get it off my chest

bf broke up with me last night though I had considered it as well.

basic story is, we met, it was great, then a few months later i find texts to girls asking if they want to meet, we fight, i move on and stay with him. month or two later i find texts from girls, again i stay. go on holiday, he flirts with some 30 something tart from Essex (typical!) again we fight but i stay. then couple of months later, texting girls, found texts from girls one saying "i liked the way you gave it to me last night" apparently it was just a massage but i dont think i ever believed him. we move in together mid feb this year, things are tough. we fight a lot, then one evening he threatens me with a knife, (actually held it to my hand and asked if he should cut my fingers off!) i break it off and start moving stuff out.
then he comes over, crying, we talk i say ok but im only coming back with basics. things start going well, he's nicer etc. then last monday he is taken to hospital cos of his leg and cos he couldnt drive he stayed at his mums, he then came back thursday, changed to mr nasty again. we fight, he says its over on monday. then he wants a break, then we are fine, then i ask whats actually going on, he snaps at me, then last night we agree to break up

i thought that would be an easier way of saying it rather then going in to too much detail.

oh and between the year he has thrown me on a bed, and also strangled me at the same time as trying to make me answer him while he is strangling me. and he has stolen things from me, i.e a voucher, money, items such as a mouse etc.

and he's a mummys boy!

i hate him. yet last night i cried for 5 hours non stop and didnt sleep till about 2am.

are there any blokes out there who dont want to hurt me????
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You should have got out sooner. Not all guys are like that out there, i'm not lol
 
blimey its all going on!!

he called again saying his brother wanted to buy our 21" bush tv for £50 when its only a couple of months old

AND

he was going to give the flat keys to his brother to pick up the tv then his brother was going to pay him next week. i said no way dont be naive cos his brother never pays up and wouldnt feel inclined to if he was given the tv

he got angry and started swearing etc and said "well we will see" then he said "fine you sell everything we bought jointy and just give me my half when its done"

but i dont trust him or his brother so i just got my mum to drive over to the flat so i could get the tv

blooming heavy and i think i just did my back in

then he started saying "well your insecure you have crippled feet ( i have ingrown nails which are being sorted) "

but as soon as i said "well we are not together anymore so i dont see why it bothers you" he soon shut up

and the scores are

Karen 10 Lewis 0

:D
 
He's called Lewis and he's a mummy's boy?

Reason it didn't work out is he's a big gay bear.

Does he still get bitty?
 
Gilly said:
He's called Lewis and he's a mummy's boy?

Reason it didn't work out is he's a big gay bear.

Does he still get bitty?
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lol you nearly made me choke on my drink!!

i understand people being close to their family but he cant be alone. he has to always be with someone.

when we lived together he would wake up in the morning and text his mum good morning, then call her 3 - 5 times a day then when he was going to bed he would text her saying goodnight

i told my mum and she said

"omg how sad is that!"
its too much i think. and he said the other day that if he could live at the flat and with his mum and dad he would. i said to him until he grows up and gets to the point where he can move out and not want to move home he wont ever be with someone or be able to have his own place and have his own independance

he never called the flat home and i said to him, we were trying to make a home and all the time he calls his parents house home, hes not moving on etc
 
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