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LOLGilly said:
Just about to go to the theatre to see Little Britain, too
Broke up with bf
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Just about to go to the theatre to see Little Britain, too
Gilly said:How old is this fool?
Sounds to me like you're much better off without him
22.
23 in october
my mum said i should go for a slightly older person next time cos they are more mature. HOWEVER, its ME time right now so no more guys for a while
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secretspy said:
he doesnt act 22. take it from a 22 year old.
Abyss said:He doesn't even act 20, take it from a 20 year old
lol, I love the Bitty comment Gilly!
lol
well my mum said just a minute ago "even your friend Iain is more mature"
though he got "sweet" tattooed on his shoulders but on a serious note hes 21 and more mature
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secretspy said:
if i were you i woudnt worry about age. its no measure of maturity
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james.miller said:if i were you i woudnt worry about age. its no measure of maturity
Not when it comes to blokes anyway
hee hee
BB x
Garp said:
We will?
secretspy - the whole point of going to meets is to make new and different friends; this doesn't always work if you bring "current" friends along with you. Don't worry - we'd all look after you
Make sure you don't get "done over" by your ex - make sure you get what is rightfully yours out of that flat, even if it means going in when he's not there and just taking it. Something tells me he'd have no problem clearing the place out.
Takhisis said:We will?
secretspy - the whole point of going to meets is to make new and different friends; this doesn't always work if you bring "current" friends along with you. Don't worry - we'd all look after you
Make sure you don't get "done over" by your ex - make sure you get what is rightfully yours out of that flat, even if it means going in when he's not there and just taking it. Something tells me he'd have no problem clearing the place out.
i understand what people are saying about the meets but the whole thing about bringing a friend is i have friends who encourage me and if it was just me i would back out straight away
i almost made it to a brum meet a while ago i was with my other ex (spikes) but we both backed out though i wish we hadnt now
oh well, least i got to stay in a nice hotel which i never got charged for!!
he's just text saying he doesnt want it to end bad and would still like to be friends etc
(see he cant be alone`!)
and that my family have been so good to him
well i will stay friends for now because im tied financially with him RE the flat but who knows if i will still be friends after that
one thing is
im DEFINITELY NOT going back
and if you ever see a thread on here saying i have then you all have my permission to come and slap some sense into me
my address is
40 stupid lane
stupid hill
surrey
ST0 9ID
(see he cant be alone`!)
and that my family have been so good to him
well i will stay friends for now because im tied financially with him RE the flat but who knows if i will still be friends after that
one thing is
im DEFINITELY NOT going back
and if you ever see a thread on here saying i have then you all have my permission to come and slap some sense into me
my address is
40 stupid lane
stupid hill
surrey
ST0 9ID
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secretspy said:
Take one day at a time but make sure everything is kept civil while you deal with the financial side.
Once thats out of the way, decide if you want to be friends. You won't know how you feel until it's happening.
Kainz said:
it is not that...girls forgive a lot,they think that guys will change and sooner or later everything will be ok.they fight for relationships if they really love,they devote themselves to those they care for.they are just blinded,dont wanna see those bad things,thats why they stay and take all this ***P
secretspy said:
Jesus H Christ, there is something wierd there, fair enough be close to your parents, i get on with mine extreemly well and i'm the same age, hell i still live with them, but there are times when i don't see my parents for days on end and don't talk to them either, just as i'm off doing stuff.
He is clearly somewhat unstable, at the end of the day you misjudged him, everyone does that from time to time (some people a lot of the time) but nobody is a perfect judge of character, and sometimes you get it wrong, not worth beating yourself up over, yea you made mistakes but as long as you learn from them then mistakes are very useful to people.
And purely as i haven't noticed anyone say it yet, i think the best course of action would be to Kill it with Fire
Get yourself to an OCUK meet, i know it will be akward but i'm led to believe that the fine Ocuk people are a stunnignly nice bunch and will be more than happy to accomodate you at the London meet, i shall be attending my first meet in Brizzle in June (assuming it's still going ahead that is)
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Good rioddance to bad rubbish.
Don't you dare let him back near you. Anyone deserves better than that.
Don't you dare let him back near you. Anyone deserves better than that.
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