Soldato
Who's alt account is this?
Totally get this.It makes having friendships and relationships (not dating kind) at work so much more tricky as you can't be your true self. I've received a few warnings over the years but once the facts came out everything was absolutely fine. People misinterpret things. People generally have good intentions but people choose to be offended by things because society has conditioned them to be.
New guy, only found the forum last night because I was a little worried about the situation when I received the phone call yesterday. Worked for myself for years so quite new to this. Feeling a bit more relaxed about it given the comments here. I'll try to be relaxed on Monday morning and will listen more than talk.Who's alt account is this?
A friend of mine was put on a warning for criticising hamas because a muslim colleague overheard him and reported him!
Just be aware that if you are 'new' enough, then you won't have the same levels of protection for your employment as if you've been there for two years, so whilst this sort of thing isn't really a 'sackable offence', within the first two years they can pretty much bin you for anything they like other than 'automatically unfair' reasons. As advised above, do more listening than talking and don't go in there looking to argue the toss and give someone an easy decision to remove someone who looks a potential nuisance - it sounds like they've got enough nuisance employees as it isI'm pretty new too.
People like to get offended by proxy. Being offended is a choice IMO. There's so much victim mentality going on these days.
How would that warning hold up legally? Hamas are recognised as a terrorist organisation by the UK, so I’d imagine criticising them is pretty much legally fine. I’d politely suggest your friend is telling porkies about their warning or perhaps were more than just ‘criticising’ Hamas.A friend of mine was put on a warning for criticising hamas because a muslim colleague overheard him and reported him!
How would that warning hold up legally? Hamas are recognised as a terrorist organisation by the UK, so I’d imagine criticising them is pretty much legally fine. I’d politely suggest your friend is telling porkies about their warning or perhaps were more than just ‘criticising’ Hamas.
Your mate is a fool for accepting a warning in that case.No, it true.
Believe what you want. The work colleague didnt like a fellow 'muslim' being criticised.
Depends if you can afford to kick up a stink about it sadly.Your mate is a fool for accepting a warning in that case.
A friend of mine was put on a warning for criticising hamas because a muslim colleague overheard him and reported him!
I was supposed to be working tomorrow but have been asked not to come in. Instead I am meeting with the management on Monday morning.
How worried should I be about this? Could this really be considered a sackable offence?
There was one other girl who came into the office towards the end of it while my accuser was getting triggered and upset; telling me that I shouldn't have an opinion about such things becasue I'm a bloke and asking how I would react should my daughter decide to abort her child in the future - would I support her or spin my story to her; that kind of thing. She only caught the end of it. I am a little worried about it.with no witnesses it'll boil down to your word vs hers.
That's worth thinking about actually...Just remind them your views on abortion are religious based and you should be safe under the Equality act
Yeah, I've been playing through scenarios in my head all weekend. I'll have to think carefully before I speak (which had I been doing before then I wouldn't have this meeting in the first place).On Monday make sure you have your wits about you..