To be fair I think you are talking the whole self made man a bit too far making the argument absurd. No person can succeed in isolation that much can be agreed, but people can succeed in serious adversity and against all the odds at which many would have given up or not have bothered at all.
I don't recall saying that some people can't succeed despite adversity.
I'm saying many people fail due to adversity.
To champion the poor like you do as they are the product of their environment (which is an admirable thing) but to not recognise that some people succeed despite being in the same situation as the poor you have compassion for is as bad as the idiots that berate the poor for being poor.
As above, if you re-read what I said you will see I never specifically stated that was the case (As I agree, that would be absurd).
We all have different tolerances & have different abilities to overcome disadvantage, let's just take one example - some people are very resilient to emotional distress, others fall apart under pressure & have a breakdown.
I'd also argue that everybody has different requirements, some need harsh parenting, some need soft - some mid-way, some people do better born with advantage, some may strive from adversity.
My point was more that many people end up in the wrong situation for them to succeed in life (due to genetics, environment, early development).
Not all who have succeeded in life have had a stable loving home life with parents that emotionally and financially support them, nor did they have parents that are intelligent and successful themselves. Some even succeed despite being physically and mentally abused.
I agree completely (as above, I never stated otherwise).
But we have to recognise that many don't have the level of resilience to overcome adversity in the same way (as we all have different coping mechanisms).
This is clear when you look at how well people perform in life who have been abused (higher chance of addiction, suicide, depression, criminality etc) - the data seems to suggest that while some are fortunate enough to overcome it - many are not.
Taking the above into account, if you could state specifically which parts are absurd I'd be happy to clarify further or revise my statement if it has errors in it.
Edit - to clarify, the same applies to not just the poor - I don't blame the richest in society for doing that they do (as they are bound by the same laws of causality) - I don't really think I'm championing anybody, just attempting to put forward views & ideas which could result in a more cohesive society for all.