DADS ARGHHHHHHHHHH

Aruffell

Aruffell

Aruffell

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IT's official, i hate, loathe, detest my so called father.

I know a lot of people say things in the heat of the moment, but my father is the biggest **** alive.

I know that people go through life and there are some people that they just don't get on with.

Mine would be my father :mad:

I have freeview in my room and a big projector so i hardly watch TV downstairs.

My mum and him went to the pub for dinner and got in 10 minutes ago.

Since they went out, i thought i might as well watch a bit of teleport replay downstairs, then he walks in and tells me to sit on the seatee instead of the chair (his chair apparantly)

I'm needled at this but he does it all of the time, so i move, then he sits there and starts wriggling his feet around which i detest as it's right in the view of the tv, so i ask him to stop.

I get back "it's my house and i'll do what i want"

I then throw the remote at him and hurl lots of abuse at him.

Last week i wasn't even allowed to put a shelf up in my room because it's not "my" room, but his.

He's never been there as a dad, never went to parents evenings, never showed any interest in me or my 2 brothers lives.

He's drove 1 son away, and me and my other brother both think he's a swedish banker.

I'm sorry for the rant but i just need to vent.

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :(

Andy
 
Otacon said:
Why the hell did you do that? :confused:

Sorry dude, but he didn't deserve that.
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Agreed. If you're giving your dad that kind of trouble then you should be expecting him to give you a hard time.
 
Gilly said:
I'm with Daz. You flipped out because he wiggled his feet?

You have issues.
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agreed.

You should think yoursel lucky he is still alive, cos some people dont have a dad any more (one guess as to who might be one of them....)

Should chill out to be honest.

Although saying things like this is my house and my room can make people feel a tad insecure. But messing around is not the answer. Tried talking to him?
 
You say all that and then there is nothing to indicate that he has actually done anything wrong to warrant such a reaction... you hate your Dad because you can't have a shelf?
 
Not just because of that.

He does sod all, all day and my mum does everything pretty much.

He read's the newspaper then phones up his dad and moans about immigrants for 3 hours.

He sits there and grunts and groans and when you say something he says it wasn't him.

If you don't do what he say's he says "fine i'll take the internet out then" even though i pay half.

He moans at me because i'm a growing lad and i eat more than him even though i pay for rent and food.

Just does my head in, in general.

If you're watching TV downstairs he thinks he has the right to kick you out of the chair you're sitting in and to just do what he wants.
 
woodsy2k said:
agreed.

You should think yoursel lucky he is still alive, cos some people dont have a dad any more (one guess as to who might be one of them....)

Should chill out to be honest.
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need i say more?

~m
 
Aruffell said:
If you're watching TV downstairs he thinks he has the right to kick you out of the chair you're sitting in and to just do what he wants.
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I'm sure at some point everyones parent has done that. It's his house.
 
woodsy2k said:
agreed.

You should think yoursel lucky he is still alive, cos some people dont have a dad any more (one guess as to who might be one of them....)

Should chill out to be honest.

Although saying things like this is my house and my room can make people feel a tad insecure. But messing around is not the answer. Tried talking to him?
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Mate, he's never been there at all.

I haven't had a "Dad" for my whole life.

Tried talking to him oh so many times and he has an excuse for everything.
 
I used to think I was some hard done by teen as well.
Then again I never had a projector in my room ! How hard done by is that?
I had a fist fight with my father when I was about 16, I flew at him. He used to box for his regiment, he could have knocked the carp out of me but chose not to.
He had "his chair", he still does.
I couldn't stick shelves up if I wanted to, it was the Army's house not mine.

Now many, many years later with a daughter of my own I look back and realise he was a very decent father and I hope I can live up to his standards.

I personally think it is nature that fathers and sons fall out in their teens, it happens in all sorts of animals and without that transformation of relationship kids would never leave home and fly the nest. Some people never go through this breakdown of relationship wit their fathers but a lot do, in the end you'll look back and realise you were a bit of a &*(* and respect your father a whole lot more.

Mind you if a child of mine lobbed a remote at me I don't think that I would have the discipline of my father and the son in question would regret it badly.

I would asume that you are in your teens but people stay at home into their late 20s these days, how old are you?
 
Whilst he may be acting like a bit of a numpty I have to agree with him.

I have a computer chair in the computer room. Two people are allowed to sit on it. Me and the wife. I get cross if my son or his mates sit on it.

I don't sit still. If anybody in the house doesn't like it they can go watch TV in another room. If somebody hurled a remote at me (that could do real damage) and gave me abuse for that they would be in for it.

You have a projector and freeview in your room? You presumably have a good computer as well?

Stop acting 12. Grow up or move out. Their house, their rules I am afraid.

You may not agree with me...
 
Mikol said:
I'm sure at some point everyones parent has done that. It's his house.
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My mum doesn't do it, none of my mate's parents do it.

He thinks because it's his house that he can do anything in it, and that everything in the house is his including the stuff that i have bought etc....
 
LordSplodge said:
You have a projector and freeview in your room? You presumably have a good computer as well?

Stop acting 12. Grow up or move out. Their house, their rules I am afraid.

You may not agree with me...
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Aruffell said:
My mum doesn't do it, none of my mate's parents do it.
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Grass is always greener...
 
Your what, 18/19 years old right?

you still at school? or working?

if you are working, you might wanna consider making plans to move out. For your benefit i mean. It will make your life easier in that respect, and most likly make your relationship with your dad better.

just a thought...
 
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