Damn it all to hell!

You are just a small boy. This feeling will pass, and you will go back to this thread some time down the road and think 'omg how much of a muppet have I been ?!' :p

And yes, going into the 'good friend' territory is quite possibly the worst rut you can get yourself into.
 
Average Frustrated Chump. A "nice guy". A guy who has no pick up skills and rarely manages to close a target pick up. Also a guy who tends to supplicate in his behavior to HBs. Meaning, buying flowers for a chick when going out for coffee, putting her on a pedestal, and generally letting women walk all over him in the vein hope of somehow being seen as attractive in their eyes. A common term used for AFCs that have seen the error of their ways but not yet gained PUA skills is RACF (Recovering AFC).
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I stopped reading at page 3. But from page 2 i was already thinking you were goth/emo.

Jeez, honestly, get over it. I'd have much more sympathy if there was something there to begin with, but...
 
Chin up man, you'll realise soon enough love ain't all it cracked up to be. Theres no 'true love' and there not someone for everyone, population ratios dictate that :D Play the field, you're 18, full of hormones and moods, it'll pass.
 
Protoman said:
This is the ONLY thing i want. If i lost everything else (money, home, security, health. hell even friends and family) but I had this it would still be true happiness.
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Family killed in a horrific accident, no friends, in massive debt and terminally ill, but hey, you got the girl.

Get a grip, welcome to real life.
 
If shes not interested in you now likely hood she never will be. I know it hurts but, jesus move on, you like her, she doesnt like you. As oppose to get hung up on it, find someone else, move on with your life. Theres hundreds more fish in the sea and stop being so ****** pessamistic. My girlfriend of a year and a half cheated on me with my best friend, i didnt find out till months after we broke up. Yeh it hurt, but its behind me now. I'll be at uni in four weeks, and i cant wait. A fresh start loads of nice new people (girls). Learn from the rest of us. Times a healer.
 
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Beat yourself up with beer and drugs then feel even worse the next day. Repeat every day for at least 3 months. Seems to work :)
 
same age as me dude.


Forget about it! I felt the same way 6 months ago, now I don't give a monkies! :p


Plenty more packets of malteasers/fish/whatever takes your fancy... :p ;)
 
rookie said:
ive already said its a girl

i know im only 18 and have a lot of life to live, but this is the one thing im sure about. You ever get that where you just KNOW
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There's been lots of things I've been sure about.

I was wrong.

Seriously mate, chin up - you WILL forget about this, it'll be fine.

It'll just suck massive balls until it gets better.
 
Few things from reading the start of the thread.

1. Get over it.

2. No matter how bad you think it is, it really isn't You're young and i'm guessing at least reasonably intelligent since you're going to uni. You have your entire life ahead of you and your best years are in motion right now.

3. You're incredibly naive. Yes, it does feel horrible at the time, yes you do think you'll never get over it. Yes, you do think everyone saying this is wrong and that you're oh so different. You aren't.

4. You keep saying this thread isn't yourself because it's just you speaking from your mind? I'm sorry but that's still YOU, whether or not you decide to reveal yourself is another matter.
 
you know, i used to read these thread and think poor guys

but now i am of the opinion 'Oh ****, not another i am 18, my bird has left me, i love her more than life, whats the point? i cant go on! its time to end it thread' and most of the people who post them seriously need a good kick in the arse.

life sucks, and its a bitter pill.

swallow it, pull yourself up, and dont be such a baby ...

when i was younger i would never have thought i would have fathered a beautiful daughter, lived in America, Emigrated to Australia, or have done half the things i have done now, you have no idea what is around the corner,good or bad, and you will look back in 5 or 10 years and ask yourself 'what was that all about?' the thing is, most of you come from good homes, and have no emotional padding to soak this up ...

take it from me ...

there is always, ALWAYS, someone worse than you, but you wont here them bleat alod of carp about it ...

ok?

good, glad we got that sorted ... :rolleyes:
 
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