Damn it all to hell!

mattbill · 20 Aug 2007 at 16:41

what laissez-faire wrote made me LOL, but at work its never good LOLing... I always manage to read funny things at work! but that was class made me laugh.

Murf · 20 Aug 2007 at 17:02

rookie said:
nah, im not about that im afraid

i put others before me most of the time, im a nice guy, maybe thats why i finnish last lol

Nice guys don't finish last, boring ones do. More so if they act like a pushover, hang around the girl constantly and pour out their emotions with added drama all the time.

Re-read this thread in 1 year, seriously. You'll be amazed at how you acted. We've all done it mind, just a lot of us didn't have a forum to do it on at the time.

icehot · 20 Aug 2007 at 17:17

personal experience...

had feelings and a relationship for a short while with a best friends YEARS ago, and it ruined everything we had to begin with in our friendship.

your better off, find someone else!

verbal · 20 Aug 2007 at 17:42

I have a friend who has fancied a girl for 8 years. He's been her best friend all this time and wasn't interested in other girls. Finally he is getting some and might even be moving in with her. So a happy ending then...? Well, he lost his twenties in the mean time.

Angilion · 20 Aug 2007 at 18:03

Toryglen-boy said:
There is no such thing as nice guys .... guys are only nice and gentle and considerate, because they want something from it.

nobody does nothing for nothing..

and guys are usually nice to try to charm 'small cotton undergarments' off

You have a very poor view of men, unless you think the same is also true of all women - in that case you have a poor view of humans, which I consider much more reasonable.

I see three interpretations:

i) You think women are superior to men.
ii) You think women are all inferior to men in some other, equally important way - equality by balanced bad things.
iii) You think there is no such thing as a woman who is nice, gentle and considerate either, and any woman who appears to be so is just trying to get something.

Mephisto · 20 Aug 2007 at 18:11

This thread is just pure fail.

It makes me sick when men split up with their partners and become all self centred and start wallowing in pity. It's pathetic. Get a grip and snap the hell out of it!

sarutobi · 20 Aug 2007 at 18:34

just so u lot know, i have taken some of this advice on board

im not wallowing in pity or anything, i never was going to, it was just that night cause it really hit home you know

anyway, things shall change :cool:

Kitchster_uk · 20 Aug 2007 at 18:44

So, no takers on Fat Bird Theory then :confused:

I think it'd work for the OP and even if not, he'd have got his rocks off!!! Ugly girls are also goo - they try harder and more adventurous and you can always play 'Stars in their eyes' - "Tonight Matthew, this Minger is going to be.......the bird I've been all Emo and crying about!!!"

Dear Derdrie eat your heart out!!!

Zefan · 20 Aug 2007 at 18:56

Good man.

Get drunk, it helps sooooooooooo much

Doohickey · 20 Aug 2007 at 20:17

LOL at Laissez Faire

icehot · 20 Aug 2007 at 20:58

verbal said:
I have a friend who has fancied a girl for 8 years. He's been her best friend all this time and wasn't interested in other girls. Finally he is getting some and might even be moving in with her. So a happy ending then...? Well, he lost his twenties in the mean time.

how anyone can do that, and watch someone they like with other guys for that long is totally beyond me.

icehot · 20 Aug 2007 at 21:00

Mephisto said:
This thread is just pure fail.

It makes me sick when men split up with their partners and become all self centred and start wallowing in pity. It's pathetic. Get a grip and snap the hell out of it!

that thread is -----> that way

Doohickey · 20 Aug 2007 at 21:07

Mephisto said:
This thread is just pure fail.

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Jonny ///M · 20 Aug 2007 at 21:12

hmm so what happened then?

Best way around this is going out and sleeping with several morgans,lauras,jennifers and so on. Makes you feel better for sure.

Then once you have that out your system work on sticking to a relationship.

Tefal · 20 Aug 2007 at 23:00

We still need pictures tbh...

Nix · 20 Aug 2007 at 23:07

Mephisto said:
This thread is just pure fail.

It makes me sick when men split up with their partners and become all self centred and start wallowing in pity. It's pathetic. Get a grip and snap the hell out of it!

Don't snap it, it's just not cricket!

Toryglen-boy · 20 Aug 2007 at 23:48

Angilion said:
You have a very poor view of men, unless you think the same is also true of all women - in that case you have a poor view of humans, which I consider much more reasonable.

I see three interpretations:

i) You think women are superior to men.
ii) You think women are all inferior to men in some other, equally important way - equality by balanced bad things.
iii) You think there is no such thing as a woman who is nice, gentle and considerate either, and any woman who appears to be so is just trying to get something.

indeed, as you put it, its not gender specific.

i have been ****** over so many times by people both men and woman, that i now have a very very poor opinion of the human race as a whole.

bfar · 21 Aug 2007 at 12:53

rookie said:
i wasnt looking for advice lol, was just writing down my thoughts

Good for you

But advice will do you good, we've all been there man, we're on your side.

You'll never know the true meaning of happiness until you've felt the pain. Sounds like your starting to pick up on this. Your only starting out dude, you are going to experiance this several times in your life. It's part of the journey, and it always hurts just as bad. Through experiance you learn to pick yourself up quicker.

Believe me dude, you haven't met the love of your life yet. You will feel the happyness again. Might be hard to believe now, but it's the absolute truth. Pick yourself up quick