Dating - why must it be so hard...

knip said:
Ive been single for a year now, and before Christmas I was feeling ready for another relationship, so I joined an online dating site.
So far ive been
*stood up by one bloke
*harassed by a weirdo
*creeped out by a few others
*been out on 2 dates with one bloke, and I thought things were going well, but now hes not replied to my last txt I sent on Friday, and ive had no other contact.

Its easy to say stop trying but im 29 this year, and all my friends are settled down, so I cant "get out there and find someone" so easily because although I love my friends to bits, theyre not interested in that sort of night out.

Im at a loss as to what to do really, chatting to blokes on the site I was on made me realise that I kind of miss having someone around to chat to when ive had a crap day, or to do things with, or have a cuddle (or a regular supply of "hows yer father")

Ah well, sorry for whinging. :)
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Which site and what do you look like. :D
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I'm relatively inexperienced with multiple partners, but the last time I was in a relationship it was so easy it was laughable.

Both met each other going to a houseparty.

Chatted all night.

She texted me the next day inviting me for a night out. I went, we had a great time.

She invited me on another night out and we kissed and that blossomed into a relationship.

It was so frigging easy and we got on so well, it was just an instant click and I've never had that before. Sadly she has moved away and is seeing someone else, apparently. But since I get the feeling that if it isn't that easy then its just not worth the bother. A bad thing? I'm unsure.
 
Nitefly said:
I'm relatively inexperienced with multiple partners, but the last time I was in a relationship it was so easy it was laughable.

Both met each other going to a houseparty.

Chatted all night.

She texted me the next day inviting me for a night out. I went, we had a great time.

She invited me on another night out and we kissed and that blossomed into a relationship.

It was so frigging easy and we got on so well, it was just an instant click and I've never had that before. Sadly she has moved away and is seeing someone else, apparently. But since I get the feeling that if it isn't that easy then its just not worth the bother. A bad thing? I'm unsure.
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Why aren't they all that easy? :(
 
I find it remarkable that people just say, "go out and pull". :D If they spend so much time on their pc then they might not have any mates in the area, then what are they supposed to do? Go out get lashed on their own and then look like some nutter drunk as a skunk at a bar on his tod?! :D
 
If you're finding dating hard you're doing it wrong.

Remember that what a relationship is, fundamentally, is two people who get on really well together, have a lot of fun and find each other attractive.

You shouldn't try to impress on a date, say anything calculated to get a result, or try to race through the bases. Instead concentrate on having a good time - as if you've gone out for a night out with your best friend (only with less homo-eroticism). If you can walk away from the night saying 'I had a really good time', then chances are she'll feel the same - and that generally translates in to 'I have a really good time WITH x' and thus things move on from there. If you don't have a good time, if you don't spend the night laughing and smiling then, really, what's the point?

Also, we should all totally find knip a date - how many men are there on here? With over 32,569 members I'm betting that more than one are from bristol. Let's resurrect this thread .
 
ic1male said:
Can you get your money back from match.com as you didn't find love within six months? :)
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yeah sure if you buy 6 months up front. You still have to email at least 5 women a month even if you dont like em though.

well you dont get your money back but you do get another 6 months.

tbh my advice is to ignore women totally. Do the opposite of what you're doing atm how worse can it be? :D

Like the great man once said

"Unpack Rachel and get out the puncture repair kit! I'm alive!!"
 
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platypus said:
This is annoyingly true.

To the girls: Why do you always seem to want men that aren't single!
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Because women are wierd manipulative creatures. Unless there is something in it for them and can play their stupid games then they are not interested. Single men arent interesting.

I just find women too much bother and tbh just cant be arsed playing their stupid games.
 
Edinho said:
Because women are wierd manipulative creatures. Unless there is something in it for them and can play their stupid games then they are not interested. Single men arent interesting.

I just find women too much bother and tbh just cant be arsed playing their stupid games.
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have a great saturday night!!! man gets sex women gets money everyonessss a WINNER

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fini said:
You shouldn't try to impress on a date, say anything calculated to get a result, or try to race through the bases. Instead concentrate on having a good time - as if you've gone out for a night out with your best friend (only with less homo-eroticism). If you can walk away from the night saying 'I had a really good time', then chances are she'll feel the same - and that generally translates in to 'I have a really good time WITH x' and thus things move on from there. If you don't have a good time, if you don't spend the night laughing and smiling then, really, what's the point?
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Surfer said:
have a great saturday night!!! man gets sex women gets money everyonessss a WINNER
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A guy I used to work with had got fed up with relationships so decided to start renting them by the hour instead. Not something I could do myself but I do think he has a point. Had enough mind games and ear chewing the last few times around :(
 
Stop looking. And stop using online dating websites, socialise generally and things will happen.

Re the girl, maybe she didn't feel anything from the kiss, no chemistry or whatever. It's hard to say i guess
 
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