Perhaps you looked at this wrongly when you decided to put all your eggs with your friends who've let you down?
Its why I made the MP thread weeks early and why I made this raid thread to encourage people to group up not just as a pick-up game, but to get maybe a decent raid group that members that play at the same times, so doing the raid is easier to organise. I have to be honest I'm confused how people are going about trying to get a raid party, makes more sense to delineate when you can play rather than say 'anyone for a raid?'. Its not gonna be cleared in one evening unless you've done it all before...
You have to remember that its still the minority that's got upto raiding status (games only been out 3 weeks) so you might have to bide your time until there's more people around that want/can to do it.
And no the coordination you need is far more than a basic skill - its not for killing things - I think you need to get your head around that most things are easily killed once you have a suitable light level. Killing stuff isn't the hardest thing to do in the raid...
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