I have bothI'd rather have a dog.
I have bothI'd rather have a dog.
Never paid any rent to my parents. I did however contributed towards bills shopping etc.. My parents never once mentioned about how to spend my money, it just came naturally. Over in time you just adapt.
I will never ask my kids to pay rent etc.
Why? I just find it absurd that you have to charge them something to live under your roof? And the idea kicking them out as soon as they turn 16/17 is baffling.
Why have children in the first place, if you’re already thinking about charging them rent for discipline reasons, so they can get their own place asap.
I would rather enjoy the time that they are at home, ocherish the moments. Be a family, have a strong family bond, have fun together. Because once they eventually move out, you won’t see them as much.
What an absolutely disgusting and degenerate mind!As soon as your daughter is able to obtain an OnlyFans account, her income will dwarf yours
If you contributed to the household bills you were paying board, keep or rent call it what you want.Never paid any rent to my parents. I did however contributed towards bills shopping etc.. My parents never once mentioned about how to spend my money, it just came naturally. Over in time you just adapt.
I will never ask my kids to pay rent etc.
Why? I just find it absurd that you have to charge them something to live under your roof? And the idea kicking them out as soon as they turn 16/17 is baffling.
Why have children in the first place, if you’re already thinking about charging them rent for discipline reasons, so they can get their own place asap.
I would rather enjoy the time that they are at home, ocherish the moments. Be a family, have a strong family bond, have fun together. Because once they eventually move out, you won’t see them as much.
To play devil's advocate, I suspect across the child's lifetime they are still in arrears. I guess my take on it though is, when a child is a child, that's the parent's responsibility so you can't really hold any of those costs against them, given you chose to bring them into the world.£600 a month, imagine profiting off your own children.
Did you read anything I posted?It's true, tho... and it kind of makes a mockery of the idea that women need more financial support from their parents than blokes do.
And even without that particular revenue stream, it's 100% true that men and women at the start of their careers do not experience much difference in earnings potential.
The idea that you should wrap your daughter up in cotton wool, but show your son the door, is really old-fashioned, you know!
Depends on how long ago you were paying that, prices have gone up?I didn't have kids unfortunately, 1 of my biggest regrets in life. If I had, I'd probably charge rent or "keep" as we used to call it, but only if they could afford it. I paid my mother £30 per week so I'd probably ask for about that. Just enough to cover food, electricity, etc.
It's been years but I think I'd still charge about the same tbh. I always said to my mum I'd pay you more but she'd never accept it, in fact she said u don't have to give anything but I always did.Depends on how long ago you were paying that, prices have gone up?
Sounds like you learnt the life lesson very quickly.It's been years but I think I'd still charge about the same tbh. I always said to my mum I'd pay you more but she'd never accept it, in fact she said u don't have to give anything but I always did.
No,, it’s just what we seem fair, if they don!t like it they can move out, lol. Nothing in life is free when your a adult!Thanks for that, but did you adjust it based on the diffence in hourly rate and hours worked(if any)
If you've got adult children living with you then I don't see anything wrong with having them pay at least something towards the upkeep of the house, especially if for example you're also feeding them or giving them access to things like the car.
I would go with when they over secondary/college age and earning money, as a simple wayAt what point would you classify them as an adult child?
Not that I have children of my own, but I have lots of nephews and nieces.. now all over 18, some have children of their own and some have better paying jobs than I do. I still like to treat them, it’s my choice. Some insist that they don’t and stops me buying them stuff, some will hand me the money for their part of the meal or transfer it to my account without even saying anything.
One or two, normally the youngest of the siblings still thinks it’s normal for someone else to pay for their meal. Their older brother or sister would foot the bill, if they went for a meal together.
I still think having age as a factor is a flawed approach as the main purpose to charge for board should be to help the person develop.I would go with when they over secondary/college age and earning money, as a simple way
Sounds to me like you just don’t want your kids living at home full stop.No,, it’s just what we seem fair, if they don!t like it they can move out, lol. Nothing in life is free when your a adult!
Edit, we also took rent when they was claiming dole money, after all they need to learn the value of money and cost of living, and yes we are a close knit family.
I think you are taking it too literally, the mechanism most apply is to gently help wean their kids from being passive no income no responsibility children to adults with responsibilities. Note that many who do this, in hindsight appreciated their parents when they did this to them and saw the positive of it (for them).All I keep reading here is parents do it to teach their kids how to budget properly. People must have really low opinions on their kids intelligence if they feel they all need to be taught to budget properly. Me and my brother were never taught how to budget by our parents, we just worked it out for ourselves using our brains.