It has that.Personally I feel if it is causing that much frustration with people there's an easy way to solve it
Have every role playing game with an LGBT/Pride selectable option. If you want THEM/THEY/IT pronouns then turn it on
If you don’t want it, just pick male and he. You pick male in most games where you’re not a set character.
One extra selection (that I imagine will default to the matching pronoun for the selected gender from an ease of UX), isn’t really the end of the world is it?